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Feeling left out, and miserable.
So me and my main group of "trio" havent talked for a good while, but I just assumed they're all busy with their life, so I kind of planned for us to hangout finally and catch up. Skip to the hangout, we're talking about what we've been up to and they suddenly bring up stuff they did together last week....and the week before that and im like ?????????........ Oh. It gets worse though they show me pictures and videos of their hangout and at this point im kind of dying inside already.
Not only that, awhile after that one of my friends bring up sort of like an 'inside joke' between them, I guess, I dont know how else to explain it. So just imagine me asking "what happened? what happened?" the whole time while they're laughing their ass off.
Im so embarrassed. That whole hangout felt like a humiliation ritual.
Idk, they're allowed to do stuff together without me obviously, but i feel so devastated right now because for weeks I cluelessly just thought they were busy. they didnt once try and initiate a hangout. f.m.l
find new friend group.
they don't want you there anymore for some reason.
you can bring it up with them, but they're either going to give some bullshit excuse you know is bullshit, or they're going to try to pin it on you.
if it was days, ok, but weeks is insane. 1 reply
They're hinting that they don't like you, no other reason to be that tactless. They absolutely do not want you around trust me girl. are you enn RUN 1 reply
I'll be devil advocate since I've done what you're friends did once.
You're right btw. Friends can have their alone time and 100% NO FRIEND SHOULD FORCE friends to be with them or tell them everything. STILL it is possible doing this without hurting the one that is left out. if they can't sense you feeling uncomfortable, left out and hurt the whol...... reply
Break contact with them. If they didn't even try to talk to you during those weeks of not communicating, then they probably don't want to be close friends with you anymore. They didn't even try to include you in their hangouts together so u don't have to feel bad for trying to sever ties with them since their actions doesn't exactly reflect that th...... reply
