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Bullying
A lot of people in my class bully me because I’m quiet, and they constantly stereotype me without even knowing who I really am. It’s honestly so frustrating and exhausting. I keep trying to remind myself that I shouldn’t care about the opinions of people who treat others badly. The same people who bully me are racist, homophobic, and fascist, so logically I know their opinions shouldn’t matter to me at all, especially when I don’t even respect or like them as people. But even knowing that, their words still hurt and make me feel sad sometimes. I just wish I knew how to stop letting their comments affect me so much. Thankfully, it’s only verbal bullying and not physical
I’ve been super quiet all my life but never been bullied. Maybe it was luck but I had 2 very close friends and always tried to keep my distance from bullies (like showing anger/annoyance when they crossed the line, threatening to tell the teacher, making sarcastic comebacks). But that was many years ago.. I reckon kids these days couldn’t care ...... reply
What to do really depends on what it's like where you are but you're right that their opinions don't matter. It might help letting them know who you really are then? Opening up makes you less of an outcast. Also letting them know their actions are stupid without being a smart a*s abt it could help too. Your body language, appearance, what you say, ...... reply
You need to talk back, they will just keep treating you like a doormat if you stay quiet. I also recommend to you to make some friends, it will make your life so much easier. Try seeing if anybody from the class has similar hobbies. A lot of people watch anime and read manga nowadays, I bet there are some in your class. If you don’t want to talk ...... reply
Aww man I feel you .Im honestly going through thevsame stuff ,I just wait for the bell to ring and try being as boring as possible so that they don't target me. 2 reply
i used to be a bully in my first year of middle school. Mainly because I was 154 cm and have always been the shortest, so when people were scared of me and scared to offend me, it felt like i was better than them, and i felt more powerful. but seriously bullies don't realize what they're doing until it's too late. it really affected me hearing abou...... reply
Change yourself and the way you appear in school. Turn more “normal” really the only way for them not to bully you. You could tell adults but it’s not like they can stop kids from giving you looks. 2 reply
What I did was to change myself.. there was a saying that we have 3 sides.
First is for the friends
Second is for the family
And third is between yourself
It was a long time ago since I read it so I can't be sure but it's what I remembered.. it's one of the beliefs that I hold till now. reply
im sorry ur going through this :( every time i hear about anything bullying related i get reminded of my past experiences and how miserable i was. my advice is to not let it get to you!! easier said than done, i know. it's so incredibly easy to get wrapped up in self-hatred and self-deprecating thoughts, but u should know that anything they say or ...... reply
Dear i'm sorry you're going through that. It is almost imposible to not be affected by such a hostile environment (its not only the comments by themselves, but the whole group environment and how they seem like generally violent people as you describe them). The best you can personally do, if nobody is there to help you, is try to find your safe sp...... reply
