the only thing keeping me alive is my silly little interests like not being able to see my fave fic/manga/manwha getting updated or not being able to play the games i like anymore reply
im sorry ur going through this :( every time i hear about anything bullying related i get reminded of my past experiences and how miserable i was. my advice is to not let it get to you!! easier said than done, i know. it's so incredibly easy to get wrapped up in self-hatred and self-deprecating thoughts, but u should know that anything they say or ...... reply
no, not all forms of generalisation are bad. it depends on the context in which the statement is being made
many generalisations are used in a way not to point fingers at an entire group, but instead to make a point. take ACAB for example; obviously not EVERY single cop to exist is bad, and there may still be a small minority of cops that don't pa...... reply
both! in moderation. you need survival but too much of that mindset can lead to nonexistent morals, and only having morality in your mind is naive because other factors can play into it as well. if i had to argue one, i'd say survival reply
i need to rant about this because i've seen this happen literally everywhere, in every form of media, not just bls. misogyny is so rampant in those communities and i have no fucking idea why?
why do you, as a woman, hate women characters so much and insist on sidelining them/saying misogynistic comments about them just for your little gay ship? take arcane for example. when jayvik became a thing, mel suddenly got so much unwarranted hate from the fans. and this is not to hate on jayvik, i think it's a great ship! but jaymel is quite literally canon?
i could name a million other examples but another one that comes to my mind is the love is the illusion spinoff about the child (byul). it seems like byul's ex girlfriend was just used as a plot device and was written in a way by the author to make her annoying and one-dimensional so fans could hate and shit on her. and it worked because the comments were flooded with misogynistic comments about her and even death threats! it's not even just bl fans, it's the authors too! they will deliberately create women that get in the way of the ship and so a hate train is sent to that character.
and i'm aware this is all fiction and all the characters are fictional, but i feel like this happens much too often to be passed off as something that's 'not that deep'?
anyways this was just my thinkpiece that i needed to get out okay bye
did survived depression
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