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I might be gender fluid HELP owo
Okay, I’ve classified myself as a “fujoshi” for most of my days of reading bl, and I thought my interest in bl/mlm was becoming fetish-like. I’m between bi and pan rn (never dated so-) and I thought that’s why I always imagine myself as a dude getting it on with another dude. HOWEVER (here’s the kicker) for the first time I clearly thought to myself while looking at a panel of a uke being cute “I wish I had a peen so I could...ya know” etc etc. I mean having one biologically attached to my body. And then everything fell into place: - I already get misgendered ( because of my deep voice) and baggy clothes combo, but I’ve never really cared, in fact I didn’t dislike or feel off put by it ever -a lot of days I think “I wish I had a male -like body” but there’s this weird debate in my mind cause I also love my female body as it is. - but the reason I can’t bring myself to a conclusion is because I feel that I may just have a prolonged liking to bl that spurred these thoughts, rather than me actually being gender fluid. ┗( T﹏T )┛
As a transgender genderfluid person myself, you need to seperate the fiction from reality. One helpful tip I learned is to imagine yourself on a deserted island with no one around. Now, what gender would you present as on that island? Would you be female, male, both, neither? What gender would you want to present as, even if no one is around to jud...... reply
