i've been reading yaoi for a long time (along with other media) but for some reason, after reading and finishing wet sand specifically, I've kinda lost all interest for this "genre" in general.
Imagine you know the ending of every story you've ever read, it would make you loose all interest in reading because it wouldn't be fun anymore, right?
Thats how I feel when reading this genre. Its so obvious now that all manhwa artists are only making money grab stories, there are rarely any good ones nowadays.
And I really really thought that MAYBE just maybeeee the author of wet sand would be just the tiniest bit original and make the main character end up with the actual better option but no. No they didn't because they followed the EXCAT same plot as literally every other recent yaoi plot.
Before, yaoi actually used to be good, there were unique stories and plots and such but right now its so so boring. Everything's the same I feel like im losing my mind.
I know im being dramatic but like its kinda sad honestly.

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yay!!
And by the way, there are so many other great genres besides yaoi.... Why don't you try reading something different for a change if you've lost interest right now :)... Maybe you'll get back into it someday, and if not, that's okay too (▰˘◡˘▰)
omg dw lol i read a lot of other genres but im just kinda sad that yaois like becoming so boring haha
In my opinion, he shouldn't have gotten together with either of them and instead should have tried to heal on his own
I wish the author was brave enough to even make than happen TvT
Tbh I never read wet sand bc I’m not a fan of love triangles, I do think there’s a lot of repetitive bl manhwa where you get a typical broke bottom and rich top plot, I have found recently a lot of new interesting bl stories but like there all new wich sucks but I say don’t loose luck just yet I feel like you just need to find what you like!!
please please please give me recs girl im so bored
Go through my already watched and wanting to watch if I really like something on already watched I normally put a note down (●'◡'●)ノ
who was the actual better option? i preferred taejoon over jo ngl but even i wanted youngwoo to choose absolutely no one TT bro should've been single and healing. that timeskip was a fucking pathetic excuse for yw to end up w someone, didn't matter who . they both were the wrong choice in the end imo.
there definitely is a pattern w the same overused plots, endings, miscommunication, and misunderstandings tropes, etc., (esp in popular ones and i think that's why they're popular -.-) but there are plenty of good ones if yk how to look. and if u dont then ask for recs. or idk read yuri.
yea tbh ian should've focused on healing himself but lwk the whole plot of the story in the beginning was for ian to remove himself from the life he was living and I feel like he could've accomplished that more with joe... but yea in the end your right.
yea i used to read a lot of yuri a few years ago but now kinda the same thing happened where most of the mainstream yuri manga with actual good artstyle just used to be weird smutslop of masochist underage girls. but i might pick it back up to see if anythings new.. ╥﹏╥
yaoi where no one is chosen would be groundbreaking. bar is in hell TT
and yeah finding original media in any genre is super hard :(
ik u didn't ask me but here's some yaoi recs where the plot isn't trite imo (heavy on imo bc idk what youve read): http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/global_examination/ - goated
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hwanghyeon_text/ - bro can read words on ppl except one person (cough future lover cough)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/don_t_mess_with_the_puppy/ - animal shifter. small tiny puppy think he's a fighter dog TT
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/when_the_killer_falls_in_love/ - assassin falls in love w actor
http://mangago.me/read-manga/murderer_llewellyn_s_enchanting_dinner_invitation/ - gut wrenching
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/afterglow/ - doctor x yakuza
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/to_be_or_not_to_be/ - transmigration/reincarnation
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_beast_must_die/ -
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/19_days/ - plotless until plot then plotless(ish)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/payback_1/ - revenge. actor x ceo. uke obvi broke but it's never brought up once. top 5 all time bottoms. yoohan ily
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/half_of_me/ - soul switch
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dreadful_night/ - in horror game
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/involuntary_romance/ - pure hs fluff
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/release_your_persona/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/you_and_i_can_t_do_this/ - rivals to lovers
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/what_s_with_this_strange_dream/ - shaman and apprentice(?). cute banter.
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/a_married_man/ - heavy cw. i thought he'd end up w the red flag. happy to be wrong.
wait i cant edit. last rec might be spoiler
omg thank you imma kiss you(づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ
wait these are all fire recs but the fact that i've read all of these is crazy omg... this is bad
all?? at least you know peak.. but all??? TT i tried to rec fin but here's some ongoing: https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/office_hero/ - reincarnaton
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/r2r_run_to_red/ - sci-fi, cyberpunk vibes
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/my_sadistic_master/ - bdsm, age gap
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/death_delayed_for_a_short_time_because_of_the_will/ - hunterverse (novel for this one is gooood)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/happy_together_paradise_scans/ - slice of life(?)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/things_that_deserve_to_die/ - contract killer
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/behind_the_stage/ - college, obsessive!seme (i love his crazy eyes)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/diamond_dust_yaoi/ - omegaverse
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/die_in_my_arms_kaizen_scan/ - mutual obsession.
if u read all of these too this list has novels : https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/2960527/
i love the global examination novel. and tian guan ci fu too. so i'd rec those first<3
sadly yes all imma chek out these novels tho...
I love how all it takes is stumbling upon an absolute garbage story for someone to lose literally all interest in a genre. Happened to me too, it's a canon event, for real.
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Preach. I was so confused why he did end up with the brown haired guy
Didn’t
brah right