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Am i overthinking it?
Ok to start of today is my birthday i have 5 friends and 2 of those fives know's my birthday since we've been friends together for 7 years and i was lowkey expecting them to greet me but they didn't so i just thought they might've forgot it so i posted on my story a picture of me and my family eating lunch with a cake that had a word written happy birthday on it then like 3 hours later i opened the one that i posted and saw that one of my friend viewed the damn story but nun happened oml am i just overthinking it? i'd like to think tha i am since the world doesn't revolves around me and theres more serious sit happening around the world, though i am sad since everytime one of our friend had a birthday all of us would greet them but then when its my turn the gc just be try as hell
you're not overthinking it. hell anyone would be upset. like you said yk them for 7 years and so naturally you would expect them to wish you. and the fact that they are this dry every time just on your birthday. tho honestly dw abt it for today cause this is your day dont let anyone ruin it, then tmrw or few days later ask them about it, be low-key...... reply
If they didn't ask you out to hangout or what your plan was. If they didn't talk to you about your birthday prior to the day. If they were not talking about your birthday at all then no, you're not overthinking it. I got friends who are basically asocial in life and we never celebrate bdays in the right day together. Nonetheless, we tend to plan ha...... reply
You're not overthinking it. Anyone who makes you feel awful on your birthday doesn't like you. They can try to spin it around later on but don't fall for it. Be careful of those so-called friends. And make sure to return the favour on their birthday so they don't pull that nonsense again, that's if you still choose to continue your friendship. I'd ...... reply
First of all, Happy Birthday~ and what you're feeling is totally valid. Like I get that some people may have busy lives and may tend to forget to greet other happy birthdays, but the fact that your friend viewed the story and still didn't greet you isn't nice at all. reply
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! And just like others said, NO, you are NOT overthinking it. Your feelings are 100% valid. Even if the world doesn't revolve around us, expecting a simple 'happy birthday' from friends of 7 years is completely normal especially when you always show up for them, but they can't do the same for you
I’ve been in a similar situation...... reply
Your feelings is valid. Don’t greet them on their birthday too.
Maybe because I’m old af so when friends forgot my birthday I’m petty as hell so i don’t greet them on their birthday too. Like bitch we grew up together so why you forgot to greet me on my special day? Anyway we’re still friends. It’s just a birthday and I know they love ...... 1 reply
Girl IT IS THAT DEEP. its your special day your friends shouldn’t treat you like that. Being sad on your own birthday is worse and your friends need to do better than that. Talk to them and explain situation you have all the rights to be upset reply
Your feelings are always this deep, your allowed to get upset at the fact that the ppl that you love aren't putting the same effort you gave them, take this as a sign to stop putting any effort in these relationships, they didn't say anything on your special day so why bother with them. reply
