Better than being an indiscriminate bully. Seabi your own ego is so fragile, you can't even tolerate a person being right vs you being objectively wrong. You delete their comments, and you act like a brat as if that proves your point. You took offence because I called you immature which you really are, as others mentioned too, which is so funny to me. Y'all (you and your clique), gang up on people and tear them apart, but then act like some saint/victim who does no wrong. I have experienced it firsthand, twice.
I am sure I look condescending and sometimes I do feel like I am in a space that's not meant for me but I did find some nice people on here, with whom I share my tastes so that makes up for it. I am not really friends with them but I do ask them for recs. I also think I come off as condescending because I don't expect validation as much and I am okay with my stands and people are always threatened by non conformity, it's natural. I try to help on the forum in the best capacity I can manage and i apologize when I am in the wrong without feeling like it makes me small. Sure, you can hate me, badmouth me all you want, I am used to it on this site, indiscriminate abusive bullies who gang up on you just for having a different opinion. I expect it, so I respond in kind, because after all I only have limited mental resources that I want to spend on things that truly need it. I don't feel bad about it all. I even know this post is going to bring these bullies forward but i wanted to say my piece anyway.
But you seabi, you act like the emperor on this site ( i mean who died and made you queen lol) and you talk out of your ass about things you have no idea about just for some cookie internet points, as many others have pointed out too. You and your friends ( i find some of them okay, some are really fucking dumb) hate on people for reading yaoi when y'all not only read it yourself but also rec it to others happily. The levels of hypocrisy.
Having said that, I don't think you are a bad person or anything, I like your comments sometimes but so many times you act like am immature, spoilt brat and a hypocrite, it's funny when you criticize others for things you do yourself. I would have said it you in the comments but you blocked me so.
And to that end, this is for @misanthropical, sorry to include you in this post but you are a part of the clique and I wanted to say this to you in particular. I apologise in advance if this offends you, I don't want to go overboard so please think of it as a mere suggestion and nothing more. But from whatever brief conversations I have had with you and by reading your comments, I really think you are a smart person who is wasting her mental resources by associating with people like seabi. I know this might sound offensive and I am not trying to dictate your autonomy at all, but I am not friends with you so I didn't know how to say this to you. So I am taking advantage of this post. I only mean it with good intentions. I like you (even if you don't like me and that's fine) and I do think you are the only one that stands apart in that group, who has something meaningful and authentic to say despite your anti fujo hot takes, I think you have the potential to do something amazing with your life, find true fulfilment and joy, and people like seabi aren't the ones who will help you get there in long term. People like her will only pull you back (unless she grows up) and keep you orbiting around themselves because it benefits them to be associated with you, but it isn't vice versa. If you think I am wrong about this, then please forgive me and ignore this post. But if there's even a germ of agreement in your mind regarding this, please consider it objectively. That's all. I wish you and your friends all the best.
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@seabi you said your piece and blocked me again lol. I target you for the reasons I have already mentioned in the post and you are hardly the only one.
i blocked u after you had blocked me. i didn’t know you would unblock me
Can you guys like dm if neither of you are blocked solve your conflicts in the dms. I understand bringing it up here if y'all blocked tho
Literally said in the post that I am putting it here because they blocked me...
Oops sorry babes
you can delete it if you want and dm me. i have unblocked you, this is ur choice
i don’t hate you nor badmouth you but you always target me, this is very annoying, just because i deleted ur comment ONCE you do that.
oh i wanted to see if i was blocked or not so lemme add more
first of all, i don’t hate you and don’t hate anyone on that site. but you ARE condescending and of course ill take it badly when you literally badmouth me in your own post and under comments. why would i be okay with this ???
i wanted to reply to you and tell you why i deleted your comment but you had blocked
me, so i couldn’t do anything. i didn’t delete your comment because you called me immature, that i can handle and i don’t really care. i deleted your comment back then because @luigi came in and replied under my post even though i had blocked him. i didn’t want to interact with him so i deleted your comment and another one where luigi replied again. it wasn’t against you at all, you’re free to believe this or not.
you guys use the word bully for so many different ways, this is getting ridiculous. i’ve never bullied anyone, i’ve only ever called out ppl for reading weird content, then i BLOCK them to not interact anymore. i’ve never said i didn’t do anything wrong, but genuinely this is insane, im the one getting constant death threats since 2024, i got doxxed and harassed here, yet you say im the bully???? just because i call out ppl bruh omfg. what even is your definition of bullying ? this is crazy.
fyi me and the « gang » ( btw we don’t even know each other we just interact on here ) only ever banter with each other under ppl’s posts. but yall think this is bullying.. okay then.
yes you do come off as condescending when you target ppl and call them immature ; a brat or literally anything u say will come off condescending and it’s annoying because you act like cursing means bullying but what you’re doing is even worse. this is the first time i’ve ever said anything abt you and you write a long ass paragraph saying i’m badmouthing you and im a bitch, WTF
i don’t understand what you guys have with « mangago celebrities » girl it’s a MANGA SITE. im only an active person here because i have no life irl, thats all. like damn i get harassed and called out for blocking ppl bc i don’t wanna interact with them, and when i do interact with them yall are still pissed off. you have convinced yourself that i’m a bully and the worst person on this site when all i do is be active.
i’ve never hated on anyone for reading yaoi, im only sharing my opinion about weird content you can find IN YAOI. i mostly read yaoi, why would i hate on ppl who read yaoi???? that i can understand and say its hypocritical, but i’ve never done that
i don’t think you’re a bad person either but your remarks do affect me and piss me off, not that i expect you to understand or anything, but seriously you don’t need to badmouth me like that just because i said you were condescending, which you are.
anyways that’s all i have to say. i’m genuinely tired of being harassed constantly now THAT is bullying. yet you don’t see it bc in ur head im a bully and want attention from everyone when i know its not the case. your remarks affect me so much and everyone else’s opinions matter to me bc you guys are always so mean. i’ve been blocking everyone here for the last 2 weeks to not interact with anyone that i think is morally wrong so i don’t argue with users here. yet i STILL get called out for saying anything. if you think im immature then ghats your choice, but yall just overlook that im the one who’s getting harassed. i apologize for making everyone think im the worst bitvh here, my life is miserable hence why im always on this site and perhaps sharing my opinions is a problem.
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Not to insert myself but i think this situation was a bit of a overreaction from everyone, i think you guys should just agree to disagree
it’s fine bye glorious
WAIT WHAT DO YOU MEAN BYE ARE YOU DYING??
Thanks for your detailed response. Let me clear some things first. I never blocked you. It was you who blocked me. I also never called you a b*tch, I have never used that word here for anyone even though I have received it more times than I can count. And like I said, I know I come across as condescending but honestly, any objective reasoning on this site looks like condescension because of how insecure people here are, they getting offended with me is because some of my comments/takes/reviews act like a mirror to them and that triggers them. Sometimes, the way I have been abused here, I deliberately word my thoughts in a manner that would discourage these said abusers, because I know the last thing they want is to look unpopular or dumb, and I take advantage of that, like a preemptive act, offence is best defense type thing. And I won't deny, sometimes I just know I am right about things so I have no problem admitting it. I am not bible grade humble, I know my strong points and weak points, and I am okay with that.
But you do bully people. With the Luigi thing, I was talking to you nicely but you replied with edgy teenager energy with a lot of thumbs down emojis, like you weren't even interested in listening to what I was trying to say and kept acting like an immature brat, immune to any reason or rationale. That's exactly how kids act. Luigi didn't even say anything wrong, I don't about your history with them but in that post, I didn't see any such thing. I wasn't the only one who saw that, and I have seen you acting disproportionately rude with people many times, it's not all in my head. Seabi, you are taking about so many things that happened with you, but what I am hearing is that you have been making quite a bit of bad decisions yourself because of your thoughtlessness and impulsivity. What I am saying is when someone is talking properly with you, give them the same energy and stop acting like you know everything in the world there is to know. Accepting your mistake won't make you any smaller. That's all.
Finally, please forgive me if anything I said truly hurt you, I only wanted to reprimand you, like a school teacher perhaps, not hurt your feelings, and i apologize if I did. I don't hate you either. It's true I don't know what's going on in your personal life, and I don't want to discourage you either. I don't know your personal struggles and I don't want to add to them. But honestly, I thought you had thicker skin and won't get affected to this extent. Regardless, i hope you will take this post in only the spirit as I meant it, and not ruminate over it endlessly. Like I said, I don't hate you and I even liked some of your comments, so please, chin up.
Dude no. I wanted to say this for a long time. If you don't have anything to do with this, please step aside. There's nothing wrong with airing grievances as long as everyone is being respectful. A refree isn't needed.
Why would you even say that man? Like...
As in dying on the site....not being active anymore
Sure but i think sometimes people need to just block and move on, y'all had a disagreement and perhaps a misunderstanding or an argument but a whole post about something that could have been resolved pretty easily by just not interacting anymore is a bit too much. Either way I'm just said that because for a week now people have been making posts about seabi just because she doesn't want to interact with them and calling other users bully's for disagreeing with them.
People joking and talking casually about dying and killing themselves for any random reason needs to stop. You don't know how deeply attuned your nervous system is to your words...
Oh i know I'm on anti depressants, sorry if the wording made you uncomfortable
And for good reason. From what she said, this isn't the first time this has happened, and she was the common denominator in all of those. She might not have been in the wrong all those times but she is not blameless either. You are her friend so of course you will defend her, but I am speaking from my experience with her and that's totally my prerogative to call it out the way I want, even though I did this here because i was blocked.
You have every right to do it but right it seems like people have been targeting her and everytime is such a nothing burger situation I'd understand if she did something horrible but all these post about her are just people trying to find something to run her off the site. Obviously it seems you are not aware of this situation tho so sorry for coming off as protective
What i understand from what you are saying is that she does need to tweak her system, actions have consequences. Things happen for a reason. If it were only dumbass readers calling her out (lolisho enjoyers etc) then I would understand but others call her out too, including myself, and that's quite telling.
when i tried to reply under ur post it didn’t work so i thought you had blocked me hence why i blocked you, im not that of a bad person to block people who haven’t done anything to me. im not lying i really tried to reply to you.
i put many emojis but that doesn’t mean im not interested in debating or even just discussing, i even replied to you in detail. emojis don’t make me act like a kid, you saw it that way that’s all. i don’t like luigi for the only reason that this person is an alt that bully other people, i wouldn’t call out someone so rudely when i don’t even know them that much. i don’t think this mean im a bully, i was just calling out someone that is an alt and using other ppl personal info just to be quirky and goofy. because u don’t know the whole context it can seem that im being rude to a random, but i’ve told you that nobody even knew that the user who shared private stuff abt their sex life was a minor. meaning that luigi knows private information and it’s not okay bc it’s def someone’s alt who is a bad person. they weren’t trying to act kind and try to warn the minor not to post about this stuff, they were only here to make fun of them and to doxx private info.
do you now get why i don’t like them ?
i hope it makes enough sense.
i do act impulsive and rude sometimes and i apologize for that, but it doesn’t make me a bully and i will always believe that. i am not a bully, everytime i find myself being rude i’ve always apologized to the said person. id like you to know that im not english nor is english my native language. i live in a city where people constantly curse and talk badly, it doesn’t mean they are rude thats just how we talk, although i do understand that in english and when someone doesn’t know me it can sound very bad. im not being rude on purpose its just the way i talk i promise.
if i realize im mistaken i will apologize i’ve done that many many times i don’t care about apologizing if im in the wrong. when i replied to you i didnt think u would find me rude, i genuinely replied to u like how i talk to anyone else here. and as i said i’ve been blocking everyone so i wont be interacting with people who i don’t like, meaning i wont sound rude anymore.
i know it sounds like im victimizing myself here but im not, as i previously said im very miserable idc if it’s embarrassing for me to say this but i have intense social anxiety. so me interacting with users here is the only time of my day i have a social interaction. being harassed and threatened is affecting me so badly because all i have ever done was share my opinions while sometimes acting rude i admit it, im very much impulsive, yet is it okay for u to target me in ur posts ? or for everyone else to constantly badmouth me ? i don’t have a thick skin i literally cry when someone is being mean to me here and perhaps that makes me immature but i cannot help it. i apologize rn bc i know i sound very immature again bc im replying emotionally and i shouldn’t do that but i need to reply to u so.
please don’t say im a bully just because i was rude to people, you can call me a morale police; that i can understand, but a bully is too much. bullying is repititve and i’ve never went on someone’s profile to constantly degrade them or be rude to them.
yes
It is the shotacons and pro rape people that are calling her out tho
i hope she doesn’t defend me only because i’m her friend. this is not how a friend should act, if im in the wrong id like my friends to tell me if im wrong.
Trust if you were wrong I'd say it i don't really like being friends with weirdos
I'll release a white dove in your honor
no that’s not true. i’ve been sent so many death threats over the past few months and the only ppl who are bullying are using alts. they dislike me for reasons that i cannot explain, it doesn’t mean it is my fault.
i can understand people like you who hate on me ( you said u don’t hate on me i know but like im just saying ) or call me out, because we have interacted before. but many of the others are either ppl who dislike me with their alts, or those who are angry because they label me as a wokejoshi. that’s all.
okay thank you glorious
Seabi. You definitely came off as rude on that post with Luigi. You definitely did not counter my points thoughtfully, your responses were dismissive af, and just kept reiterating the same point with a lot of emojis, and yes, emojis have meaning too and they can be derogatory too. I live in a non english speaking country myself where local slang would make you blush, but that's not how you act on a public platform where you show no discernment and act thoughtlessly. Just because this is the internet, doesn't mean you should. And as for that minor, you literally said - y'all talk about kinky stuff all the time but when someone wants to talk about themselves, you freak out (paraphrasing). Etc. I don't care about your history with Luigi, anyone could tell they were minor if you only looked at their account, like others mentioned in that post too. Simple solution would be to just delete the account and start over, as simple as that, as someone pointed out too. But my point is -there's absolutely no reason to give mixed messaging about minors sharing their sex lives online. None. This is a line not to be crossed, unless they were talking about harrassment and needed advice if they didn't have anyone else to talk to. Period. Full stop. This is a serious issue, it not only puts the minor at risk but also those who talk to them about such a thing. Not only that, this is an illegal pirating site and scandals like this can shut it down pretty fast, especially in this climate. So what you said was absolutely thoughtless, an opinion that minimised the seriousness of the issue, and you didn't give any thought to my counters. Anyway.
If only weirdos (lolishos etc) had a problem with your attitude, I would get that but you have tiffs with a lot of different types of readers and all kinda of people get pissed at your attitude. Like I said, you are the common denominator. You and your friends absolutely gang up (even if they read problematic stuff) on them and make a mountain out of a molehill, your friends dig up past posts to spread some more unnecessary hate and drama and you partake in them too, I have seen it.
That said, I won't target you anymore, but I am hoping to see you act more discerningly. I can't say that for some of your friends though. Now go wash your face and drink something warm, it will soothe your nerves.
Well they don't.
Well same. That's why I am more careful.
yes i know i admitted that im sometimes rude and impulsive, but in all honesty i don’t even realize it, like really.
i always reply emotionally as u can see which i shouldn’t do but still end up doing anyway. i can agree with you on that. i wasn’t trying to justify myself by saying i live in a city where everyone talks by cursing others etc, i was trying to explain myself. i didnt think my reply to u would come off as rude but since you think so then i apologize. i acted impulsively and was genuinely trying to make u understand my point thats all.
people say that im a minor just by looking at my profile, which im not. you cant really tell if someone is a teen or not, if you didnt know my age you would’ve thought i was probably 16 by the way i talk and interact w others. obviously the minor user shouldn’t even be on here or share such personal info, but i still do think that luigi wasn’t even trying to be nice and warn them, they were genuinely trying to be quirky which pissed me off bc they totally should’ve tell the minor user to stop in dms. we don’t have to agree on that matter, i don’t think i was wrong for not liking luigi or being rude to them bc of my history with them, but i will still admit that my reaction to ur reply wasn’t nice.
yeah i know, it’s not just ppl who like weird problematic content, i was in discord dramas with a lot of people in here which led to mangago dramas. i did my part and apologized to those i have hurt, but it doesn’t erase what i did wrong. although, the ppl who hate on me the most are those who have a problem with me being a « wokejoshi ».
anyway. i never meant to gang up ppl, i don’t think any of us tried to actually, we’re very much active and share the same interests and opinions, so when someone is saying something « bad » we all reply like we’re coordinated but that’s not true at all….
in all i do agree with you to some extent now that you’ve explained it more, still i do think this post was unnecessary but that’s another matter. i wont block you nor interact with you anymore i don’t see any point in doing so. me replying and saying u were a cringe millennial was kinda immature, i shouldn’t have said that. bye
Sorry for inserting myself again but Luigi has been harassing seabi for literal months now, seabi has no reason to be kind to that person. Obviously I'm not going to excuse the kinky stuff but most users do not check othe people bios or profiles
I find that last line hard to believe. I do it and I remember making a post about it and many people agreed on it that they did it too.
Definitely didn't think or feel you were 16. At all. And whether to think this post was necessary or not is my prerogative and mine only. Also I was blocked like I said in post.
But thanks for meeting me halfway. Much Appreciate. Gotta say, much better than a lot of other experiences I have had here. Good resolution. You take care too, bye. I might drop a comment once in a while but I wont target you.
I remember it because you were there too and you agreed to being parasocial with your close friends on here.
No i make jokes about being parasocial. I make over top post like fore when the user me for president left and I made a post copy pasting a Jeff Buckley song, it's just joke's for me
I never checked anyone profile and the few profile I've seen never had ages, i think the only users in my memory with their ages in bio is jaegang which i only found out because I made a "can we kiss joke" and I was directed to their profile and i apologized for the joke. Obviously there's minors on this site but this is very much a 18+ site still
Hmm. I see.
There are many others things that indicate your general age bracket. Not just the description with age mentioned. Like when people talk about the things they study in school, or when they talk about their friends, or family, many things. I can usually tell.
I wish I had that ability unless it's users i interact a lot with or see on the forum a lot i don't remember users and what they say
It's pretty transparent most of the time, doesn't take much effort. The minors are generally pretty careless about the things they say here.
The mods need to do something about that but this site is ass people have already gotten doxxed
Lol do the mods even exist here? I heard one of them was bullied off from here, I wonder who did that and why. This site needs a lot of work, whether it be moderators or user interface. Why don't one of you ask to become a mod? Y'all are here for a good chunk of the time and have a pretty good idea of how things work here. It will be a paid gig too i think? Or would that be too much power in wrong hands?
Lmao I actually just made a post saying multiple people would be okay being mods so why the site doesn't start looking for some but honestly the webmaster is unreachable, once i emailed them to upload a gl I like and I've yet to get any response the owner dgaf
What a shame. Reddit doesn't even allow subs without mods. But I am glad mggo is not only free, but it doesn't have any ads and for that I am very thankful. But the minor issue is very disturbing ngl. Especially when they have been here since they were preteens.