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Am I a a-hole for this?
Okay, so boom. I reach out to this super cute guy in my grade. I graduated a full year ahead of my class, so I'm going to college in the fall in a different town. I made this super clear to him, and that I was just wanting to talk/be friends. But I lowkee kinda put myself in the thought process that things could work out with him. He apparently confessed to me on a call when I fell asleep, and that honestly ticked me off when he told me over messages. Then, not even 4 days later, he makes a joke calling me a slut and some other things, but I play it off as a joke because we're about to go on a date the following day. The date went well, but he just kept on giving me the ick. I made it very clear to him that I don't like being called terms that put me down as a woman, and he laughed it off. So I ghosted him. He's been messaging me every fucking hour for the last 4-5 days. I haven't been on any of my social apps because I'm too much of a wimp to block him on everything, because that just means he could bother me with alt accounts if he were desperate enough. (I've been stalked by 2 guys, and would prefer not to have it happen again.) There's more to the story, but I won't tell unless someone wants to be nosy
no. and i dont think you should listen to these people telling you to hear him out or talk to him about it again. you already told him the problem. youre not obligated to hold his hand and walk him through it. me personally ill usually give people like a few chances where i tell them the issue and let them figure it out, but theres not much you can...... reply
