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Someone please help me out ╥﹏╥
So like,there's a girl I needed to befriended with her bec we were in the same group and in the same class so mostly we met eo often.So instead of getting awkward or ignoring her,i wanted us to be to good friends and she ws a introvert so I started msging her daily and used to give her all attention I kinda love bomb her ig but she ws a coldie mostly times she won't reply me or left me on seen this and that.But after sometime we gradually got close bec I supported her,when she ws having trouble with smth and then I started to give her less n less time,I did msged her but after 2 or 3 days and slowly I didn't msg her first she started msging me first so then I started talking to her daily and yesterday she msged and I accidentally left her on seen and now she's mad like why did I do that and when I apologized she left me on seen and I msged her in morning so she replied with oh I slept last night so I forgot to reply then I said now we are even and she js reacted to my msg and said bye and now I didn't msg her again I don't know who should I ask so I'm here became I don't know what to do now ￣□￣||
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"love bomb effect" you being so energetic and consistent in communicating/building the friendship set a high bar for her so when you suddenly pulled away she prob felt anxious which is y she messaged u first.
Friendship should be a 2 way street one person cant be doing all the work and building the bond which u were doing....... reply
As an introvert , i agree with the other 2 answers too :) You need to both respect for urself and also respect for her . You've tried your best to befriend her already , when she did the same thing .. that you did once - by accident , you let it slide and didnt even ask her to apologise , when its clearly done intentionally . But you did it once an...... reply
hi, ur friend seems like someone who gets offended very easily, the best thing u could do in this situation is just try and say hi, if she acts moody and annoyed abt it then u shouldnt bother w trying to make her forgive u, because u shouldnt put down ur self respect for someone and u shouldnt put effort into a friendship where ur friend gets piss...... reply
Thank u guys I'll try my luck and apologize it's not like I don't have self respect but I will put a lil effort and if it didn't work I'll break up instead of losing my self respect and I get that introverts basically are lil sensitive I get it maybe I loved bomb her too much and she got the wrong idea I'll update if our argument got resolved BTW t...... 1 reply
