dude stuff thats not really dude stuff

maybeee tmi but im so curious on others thoughts/experiences and it's awks to ask people i know irl

a lot of stuff that i've been told only happens to guys im pretty sure i've experienced but just idk vagina version; post nut clarity, morning "horniness" (morning wood), random wetness (random boners). the only thing that seems genuinely just a guy thing is wet dreams because i cant imagine orgasming in my sleep idk how that physically happens without them waking up before.

i mean overall i know women get a really shit sex ed compared to guys, but some stuff that im pretty sure is more common regardless of gender has kind been dude-ified? like sometimes guys are talking about something penis-related but i lowkey relate.