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Understanding the smut
Ok it just came to my mind that ALAT of people here are secretly minors and are just winging the smut scenes like literally.
When the mood is good but then the bottom (or whoever) screams "No", "Don't", "Stop" and even crawls away, did y'all think it actually escalated to harrassment? Or just the mc feeling hypersensitive/overstimulated?
There are some scenes that are obviously harassment, but some are just hardcore sex.
Im curious, are you actually aware of how sex works?
So if in actual sex in real life your partner starts saying "no," "don't" or "stop," are you supposed to think they're hypersensitive/overstimulated and just carry on pumping your chump into them?? No need to bother stopping or asking them if they're alright..?
And "vanilla" sex in smutty stories also features the whole "no, stop, I can't take it...... 2 reply
This is revealing myself but really depends on the tone or just context around the scene.
I know its fiction, but when Im reading I want generally to be turned on and one character being just screaming and kicking to stop ain't it, yk?
What's angering is just how common it is, for example I really hate whenever authors use a character getting abs...... 1 reply
the thing is, most of the BLs are normalizing rape. so sure, it *can* be hardcore sex, but seriously, 99% of them aren’t.
i hate it when the top says something like this. the bottom crawls away and the top continues, it gives me the ick instantly. « the night is long » ah alright yeah okay just go ahead and fuck the bottom all night long y...... reply
I'd be 100% ok with a "no" or "stop" being ignored if an alternative safe word was established ahead of time, but 99% of the time one isn't. If they stop, check if they're ok, and then it's verbally clarified "yeah I'm good I'm just saying shit" or whatever then I'm also ok with that!!! I do have a problem with party A screaming and crying and sayi...... reply
Tbh I've seen way too much rape in bls and it's so uncomfortable to read, like i understand that some topics can be approached in a certain way and make sense for the story but sometimes it feels like the authors are straight up glorizing rape. In real life, I rlly hope people understand that no means no. And that even during vanilla sex or whateve...... reply
So like in the real world if your partner is screaming "No", "Don't", "Stop", and is crawling away do you just continue fucking them? Cause those words and actions usually indicate that you shouldn’t continue sticking your prick into them…unless yall have safe words or prior agreements set up? Like idk what answer you’re looking for but if yo...... reply
u can tell if the bottom actually likes it brah. oftentimes they dont cuz they js get coerced into it and tops js be ramming their shit in w no regard and respect to how the bottoms feel, hence they scream and get overstimulated. this is all cuz most authors have rape fetishes
that's why ppl should stop hyping up bullshit and read real peak fr lik...... reply
Dude, that's the same user who commented under my post where I complained that minors are sexualized in anime and that I find it disgusting, that high schoolers are considered legal in Japan, so it's basically okay, and that I should switch to a different genre 2 reply
