Understanding the smut

Ok it just came to my mind that ALAT of people here are secretly minors and are just winging the smut scenes like literally.

When the mood is good but then the bottom (or whoever) screams "No", "Don't", "Stop" and even crawls away, did y'all think it actually escalated to harrassment? Or just the mc feeling hypersensitive/overstimulated?

There are some scenes that are obviously harassment, but some are just hardcore sex.

Im curious, are you actually aware of how sex works?