what is that autism + change

my autistic ass got a roommate and they keep moving shit around and i don't go out my room often like i don't clean or touch shit anymore cuz theyre always around and i don't like cleaning when ppl are watching me anyway my roommate keeps moving shit around and so ill go to the kitchen to eat and see serval things have been moved and i just start screaming to myself "WHY TF WOULD YOU MOVE THAT OMFG" while pulling at my hair and then i don't even wanna do wtf i was doing i just leave like all productivity gone i already let myself starve when theyre home now theyre finally not home and i can't eat or clean just cause something has been moved and the same thing happens when i want something and plans change like i wanted a burrito on my one night stands birthday so we go to get one but the restaurant was closed so he says theres another one across the street we gotta cross cuz he wants to save his gas and i say i dont wanna crosss cuz I'm afraid of crossing the street so we go to a chicken place next door instead and he asks me what i want and i say nothing then he gets pissed cuz the whole point of us goimg out was cuz i was hungry and i say its whatever just order ur food ill pay and then i give him my wallet and walk out and start pacing and covering my ears and crying like wtf is that? Am i just a hrown ass nigga throwing a tantrum or is that actually an autistic thing with a word for it?