Is it true for others as well?

So a couple weeks ago, I was talking to a guy "friend", who mind you is 8 years older than me (story for another time y'all), and the topic of heated rivalry came. Now, I ,of course, have watched it and love it but he apparently didn't know what it was about. So after i told him, he sounded repulsed. And I just straight up asked him "what's your opinion on lgbtqia+ community" and he ,in typical indian fashion, was pretty homophobic, which was kind of unexpected from him tbh. So I got a bit upset and asked "hey why do you think that?" And his answer was that it's against nature blah blah blah and that he can't fathom how they have sex (wildly inappropriate to bring up btw, i didn't even say anything about that) but then i of course started like "why do you care how they do their business?why is that even on your mind? and frankly, it's a beautiful thing between two people to connect their bodies together in a vulnerable state" and I cut the call. Then i realised, fuck, this is kind of the reasons I don't read a lot of yuri because I kind of get flustered seeing two girls do it! And I felt so utterly bad! Not for what I told him, i absolutely stand by it, but for being biased myself. Now that I know better, I've been actively trying to consume more yuri content and honestly it's definitely growing on me has this happened to you too?




TL;DR: I realised I don't read yuri for the same reason my Guy friend didn't like yaoi, which is sex. And felt like a hippocrite for criticising him. But now I take my own advise and try and change. Has this happened to you too?