Most bl couples straight up don't love each other

I'm so tired of reading bls where the couple very fucking obviously doesn't love each their in lust with each other at most. If you don't got scenes of your supposed couple actually talking and getting to know each other don't expect me to believe they like each other, it's always sex sex sex , jealousy, misunderstanding and back to sex. Boring snoring yawning SLOPPY. Even for toxic stories where they're supposedly obsessed with each other or just the ml is obsessed there's nothing that makes the obsession believable why hold onto a relationship that brings nothing to your life it's dumb and uninteresting to read.