What I realized is for me to have a crush on some1, I need to be already close with them. With a strong connection/friendship + I need to atleast somewhat like their looks. I thought that was the norm but it actually isn't ig, I might just be very picky. 1 reply
I've had plenty of crushes, currently trying to figure out if I'm having one on my bff *I'm going to go insane why can't my heart get it's shit straight*
But tbfr there was A LONG point where I didn't have any crushes I just found people vaguely attractive but not like... I love LOVE them yk?? Some people just don't end up liking anyone so maybe ...... reply
It's not really weird, a lot of people don't and that's normal, i had a crush on someone for two years, after that he confessed to me but i said no ( for reasons ) , so it doesn't really matter if you have one or not , it's actually better to not have one because i had a very hard time 1 reply
