My mother is overweight. She is 60+ year old and for multiple times now she try to "diet" in the stupidest way possible. She skip lunch to eat durian which I'm just confused. Since she isn't doing it properly or consistently there are times where she just skip food all day and end up in the hospital. I would always tell her that she is not fat. She is pretty. She is enough for her age but this bitch project and body shame me every chance she gets. Today I'm in the living room with my niece which is her granddaughter. This woman start saying to my 2 year old niece "look at your aunty. So lazy. She doesn't exercise. She always eat and eat. You know the princess that you watch? What do they all look like? They look slim and skinny not like an elephant. Your aunty is gonna become an elephant but you're a princess isn't that right?" And this is not the first time this woman does this. It's like she use this chance just to degrade me. I couldn't hold back and said to her " You build like the elephant. You shouldn't be talking." And cuss her out in English which she probably also know that I cuss her out because my brother and i often does it.
She is an insecure person. I've been supportive of her. Telling her she is not fat. She is pretty but to body shame me unprovoked in front of a 2 year old because I was chilling. I'm 50kg. I don't think I'm overweight. I'm pretty much healthy but I'm getting scared for tomorrow because just like every abusive mother they are gonna hold a grudge.
