do you ever dread getting replies on here?

over the years ive come to realize theres a lot of people who get defensive when you express opinions on manga/hwa/hua (especially negative), sometimes even coming off as aggressive

i think about this a lot and its probably why i rarely interact on the site

does this just happen to everyone? is there no escape from insufferable people? is it so wrong to be hatepilled towards a piece of work? am i actually just an evil person who is too blunt?