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Aren't open relationships like cheating with extra steps?
Not talking about polygamy. But people who ask for open relationships, aren't they basically just asking for permission to cheat? Or like do open relationships even work even where both of them come up with it together? Someone please explain, because I cannot comprehend the thought process of people in those relationships.
No. Open relationships are consensual with both parties. When people are cheating, the other does not know that they are having a romantic or sexual relation with a person, but when they both know, it’s not cheating and wouldn’t be considered cheating cause they both agree that either one or both can be sexual or romantic outside of the relatio...... reply
Simply put, the thought process is that not all people think like you do and views on love, sex, romance and relationships are as diverse as views on anything else. If you don't wanna have sex with anyone but your romantic partner or don't want to have more than one romantic partner (right now or forever), good for you but that doesn't mean all peo...... reply
So it's like we're married but I'll other people to have sex with, BUT WE ARE MARRIED so you can't get married to someone else but you can have sex with someone else. I already don't understand 3p how can I understand open relationship omfg reply
It's not cheating. Open relationships only work if both of them are in 100% agreement to it otherwise it's just gonna fail. I think it will work well if they communicate their boundaries clearly. Some are just finding people for the physical aspect of it, sex. But emotionally, they're more tied to their partners. Although the idea is absurd, it doe...... reply
I don't think it's necessarily cheating. I don't like it because I've never seen it work out, but as long as all parties are consenting adults and not doing shit to animals or children, whatever the fuck they do is their own business. It's not for everyone (definitely not for me), but you're not supposed to like or dislike it if it's not your own r...... reply
This is hard conversation to have because there's so many different opinions and experiences that you can't just say this is wrong or it's fine. It actually depends on the people you are in an open relationship with. I have been in one before and it's definitely not for me and I wouldn't do it again, the problem wasn't the relationship itself but ...... reply