There are some really dark shit going on in my country lately. I've never been devastated like this before and I feel like it's eating me alive. Some of y'all who follow the news might know what I'm talking about. (Please refrain from mentioning it though, for safety reasons)
Sorry for trauma dumping, I just needed to interact with people. Idk how ...... 3 reply
She went on the whole day with very little food and water, she also wasn't as playful as she always is. I thought it was just a massive hairball because she doesn't seem feverish, but it's been like 18 hours now. It's past midnight and there are no 24/7 vet clinics where I live. I'm panicking and thinking about the worst case scenario and idk what ...... 3 reply
I really need to talk about stuff and here's my only option because none of my close friends know about this in detail. And I'm also kinda drunk.
I'll just unload here, and y'all do the same thing too if you have something to get outta your chest.
So seventeen years ago, I was nine years old, I found my dad having a seizure in the stairs while he ...... 2 reply
Just finished watching "Spoiler alert 2022" and I was crying my eyes out through the second half of the movie. Then I realized that it's based on a true story, so I searched it and saw their real faces and cried some more. Everything above my chest is hurting right now. Gimme some more good queer movies please 2 reply
Last week I saw a gigantic FLYING cockroach in the elevator and it triggered something in me and I can't get on the elevator anymore.
I already get asphyxia in small spaces, so riding an elevator was never a pleasant experience for me.
And I have a severe phobia of insects, especially roaches.
After I locked myself in my apartment for a week I wen...... reply
I'm a freelance photo editor and designer, I bake sourdough bread and pastries, take care of my babies (cat, turtle and some plants), and I believe I'm decent at cooking in general. reply
I once passively mentioned that I was born in a very religious, conservative country. Someone asked "Which country?" And I responded "I don't think it's safe for me to share that information here". They went ballistic on me saying I'm an attention seeking, dumb liar. Like, why would I even lie about something so random lol reply
If by "villain" you mean the big, bad antagonist in some historical or fantasy shit, I don't think I have any. But if you mean a regular bad guy, I'd say Han Sekye from "the world without you". I don't justify any of his actions and I know he's a horrible person, but idk... He just resembles me in some ways and he's so miserable. I literally cried ...... reply
The thing about oppression is that the more freedom you gain, the harder it would be to keep you under control. They don't give a fuck about your sexuality, wellbeing or beliefs. The only thing an oppressive regime cares about is to take as much freedom as possible away from you. reply
It's pride month, so give your fellow queers a piece of advice or experience that you think they can use on their journey. I'll go first:
Give yourself permission to explore who you are without assuming you already know the answer. Sometimes we end up defining ourselves by what we're trying to escape. You might discover that some things you pushed away weren't the problem at all, the pressure surrounding them was.
Ladies, theys and gays... I need your unbiased opinion. Let me explain: So person 1 (female and a family member of mine) and person 2 (male) have been married for 10+ years. Everything was great until year 5 of their marriage that 1 found out 2 was cheating on her with multiple random women. She wanted to get a divorce, but 2 begged her not to, and the rest of our family except me weren't supporting her so she decided to give him another chance. But 2 was cold and refused intimacy and was being super annoying in general for the next 5+ years. Last year after so much push and pull, 2 finally said he hates "women's kind" and she's wasting her time with him. Mind you, she's a very independent and strong woman, she's never relied on him financially or anything. So she said alright and their divorce is in progress, but she seems kinda conflicted because she never got the closure she needed.
Fast forward to today, another family member of mine saw one of 2's friends (drunk af) and the dude started spilling tea about how 2 is gay and he only married 1 because he was scared that his very conservative father would cut him off. Apparently, all of his friends told him that he shouldn't ruin a good woman like 1's life but he said that his father wouldn't get off his back if he doesn't marry. And five years ago, after his father died, he realized that he's got nothing to lose and accepted his sexuality. (I assume that the sleeping around with women phase was just his denial era) Anyway, that family member told my mom about everything, and my mom was about to tell 1 but I stopped her. I said 1 would be more comfortable hearing it from me since we're closer.
Sorry for yapping so much ╥﹏╥ Anyway, here's the main issue: A part of me knows that 2 is a horrible person who KNOWINGLY wasted 10+ years of 1's life and made her feel lonely and humiliated; and that 1 deserves to know why she's been treated that way and get closure. But another part of me is conflicted about letting a fellow gay person be outed like this. I temporarily stopped them from saying anything, but idk what's the more ethical thing to do. What would you do if you were me?
I was kinda upset, and I started baking. But I fucked up and ended up with cookies that look perfect but taste like soap; now I'm even more upset. Tell me about your fuck ups so I'd feel less stupid WAAAAH
I'm not talking about gigantic boobs and huge dongs and common stuff like that. Gimme the thing that only you think is absolutely garbage but everyone else seems to enjoy it. Mine is mpreg. I'm sorryyy T_T I really tried, okay? I just find the whole thing weird.
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