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Aren't open relationships like cheating with extra steps?
Not talking about polygamy. But people who ask for open relationships, aren't they basically just asking for permission to cheat? Or like do open relationships even work even where both of them come up with it together? Someone please explain, because I cannot comprehend the thought process of people in those relationships.
Cheating means breaking your partner's trust, disrespecting the boundaries. Cheating doesn't exclusively mean sleeping with someone else. If you have already talked about how you want to operate in your relationship and both are on the same page, how is that cheating? Granted, most open relationships don't work because of a skewed power balance bet...... reply
i would personnaly not be in an open relationship but i understand why some people dont see it as cheating
for them the most important thing is the feelings you have for the other, and it's not important that they want to share their body with smn else if they only feel love for you
it's like the emotional love is stronger than the physical love
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a smart man will tell you polyamory is a capitalist propaganda, but a wise man would tell you humans are not designed for monogamous relationships.
as for cheating? thats really only negotiable with your boundaries reply
If both partners consented to an open relationship, I don't think it's cheating. Like some couples have a threesome kink and bring home a third person for a one-night stand, that's an example of an open relationship, I guess. I don't really get it and wouldn't want that for myself, but it's their choice, not mine reply
in theory, no. but in reality, definitely yes. it’s always one person who comes up with the idea because they’re sick of or want to toy with their current partner
personally i just think that if you can’t devote yourself romantically and sexually to one person, don’t commit to anyone at all and just fuck around everywhere like the animal y...... 2 reply