I might get hate for this

Speaking as a woman who has been sexually abused as a child and also sexually assaulted twice by a man,
Misandry is totally valid but as a society I feel as though we're progressing backwards by js hating on eachother without actually moving forward to attain equality...
Yes alot of men are fucking miserable and should die but isn't all of that behavior a result of patriarchy itself? Yeah of course that doesn't mean men should get spoon fed on how to act and behave around women like they're some toddlers but have you guys heard of how even 6 yr olds are being shown misogynistic content made by adult men AND women on social media that influences them to be extremely violent around women...
Why are we hating eachother when it literally does nothing is my point like look at our future generations dawg little kids are being misogynistic these days and misandry doesn't make it any better, yeah and again, no woman is wrong for hating men like who considers hating their oppressors wrong? But all I'm trying to say is are we really going towards equality when the two groups are just constantly hating on eachother w no progress whatsoever....