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Forced marriage
In about four years, my family will marry me off to someone I don't know, and I'll have to live to clean and cook for him. I tried to enroll in the most remote university to avoid this, but they wouldn't let me. I tried to work, but they wouldn't let me. I tried to work online but i'm not allowed to have an account, what do i do , i just want to die, I have no way out; women are not allowed to live alone here, and I have no source of income or any basic knowledge that would enable me to escape.
marry him and then kill him, women before used to put poison hidden as make up in the cup of whatever their husband were drinking and it would slowly kill them without any trace. you could do something like that to get rid of him, and i think your family would leave you alone after his death 2 reply
If u don't have a trusted friend (your family doesn't know about) who'll take you in while u look for a job, perhaps reach out to a women's/humanitarian organization in ur country? reply
Do you have any trusted people outside of you family? Someone that can help even the slightest but with money? The only organization that i know that could help is forced marriage unit but that UK based so maybe look into a similar organisation in your country reply
Open a GoFundMe and get yourself out of there. Don't rush into anything and please don't lose hope. If things realistically do go south, marry him if that's what you need to do to stay safe, find a job while you're married to him and then make your escape when you're in a position to do so. Once you're out, don't look back.
Sending you so many hugs...... reply
apply for university away from them. research how to do this wo ur parents permission. is there a trusted adult u can ask questions to? if ure unsure then don't, they could report back to ur parents :/
focus on ur studies to get really good grades to obtain a scholarship so u don't have to get a job for now and save. if u feel like ur grades aren'...... reply
Honestly, it's really hard to give right advice without knowing the country you are in or your age (because sometimes available help depends on age too).
Also as often these kinda things are abuser acting like they looking for help, while planning to cut out all the way that their victim can escape - or trying to find the victim.
Thou, in this ca...... reply
oh my god i am so sorry you have to go through this. do you know someone in your family whom you can trust or someone who's against this? anyone? if not, any trusted teacher or friends' parents? please share this to them, and ask them if they can help in any way. try finding for legal advices online for your country online. check what legal action ...... reply
