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One thing you like about yourself
Hey everyone, I know it can be hard to love yourself, and that it's easier to see one's perceived flaws. On certain days, I can't even look at myself in mirors or pictures; most times I remember interractions with other people I feel a sharp dislike for myself. In times like these, I like to think about the little things I like about myself, physical or mental, to help me calm tf down because truly most times unless you have done a bad action no one pays that much attention to their surroundings. You pass by so many people in a day, first impressions can always be changed, and the people who truly matter to you will not see you in such a negative light.
-I like my posture, maybe the smallest trace i have of practicing ballet when I was small, but I stand and sit straight -I like my rather long neck and collarbones -I like my critical (although sometimes a bit contrarian) spirit because I like to feel as though I receive several inputs before making up my own mind -I like my small outbursts of spontaneity like when i suggested a hangout to a stranger and they became my friend
I would love to hear if anyone has such small things they like about themselves and why, because maybe that will help me notice those small things in my everyday life.
I love seeing posts like this, the world needs more of this positivity, we could really do with less of the hatred people carry for each other so easily ! I'm glad you made a question like this because so many people struggle with loving themselves and finding comfort in their bodies, thank you Internet stranger.
As for what I like about myself........ 2 reply
I like that I can speak up for myself and other people when they're being wronged. As someone who was belittled and bullied for a lot of my school life, I take pride in the fact that Im now confident enough to call people out on their bullshit. 1 reply
I love the fact that most people I know consider me an older sister to them it's just so cute!!
And also the fact that I can speak to strangers and actually have a conversation with them
And my muscular arms that I have a love and hate relationship with
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1. love my poker face. you can give me any kinda shocking news and I'd be like, K
2. love that I dont give a fuck about anything. I dont get fomo. like bitch I'd rather sleep reply
1. I like that I'm fucking weird. This isn't like a pick me / I'm special thing. I think I find myself silly and weird and really funny to myself. I appear like the most boring, serious mf ever (people think I'm a grandma or a sage to friends, a loser/annoyance to family), but I know it--I'm just weird to myself with a flower growing out of my head...... reply
Thank you for this writing this question especially today...........and I'm glad I get to come across some positively. I had a mental breakdown today feeling the lowest esp in this fast pace life and this gave a breath of fresh air for pausing the brain for sec.
It's really been soooo loonggg that I get to see this thought process.
*I love that I ...... reply
I like that maybe there was a moment when my mere presence brought someone true joy. It feels like I've grown to be someone incapable of making anyone feel that way about me. But perhaps, when I was a kid, even if it was only my parents, I brought them a bit of joy.
These days I'm so tired. So so tired. I want to go, but I still have people to tak...... reply
