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is it ok to hate your parents?
i've resented my parents since i was 5. they cooped me up in the house after i went home by myself and would ignore me whenever i initiated a conversation. i have never had a good conversation that didn't involve them preaching about religion and god. every time i committed a 'sin', they'd beat me and blame it on my personal interests while preaching about how my sins will lead them to hell. they always use family as an excuse for the abuse i got from them and my brother. i'm usually very indifferent to religion, but my parents have caused me to hate god, and for no reason.
my sisters always tell me not to hate them or get mad at them, and every time they do, i feel like an asshole for being so ungrateful.
I’m sorry to hear about your situation. It is not fair that you feel resentment within your own home. I also resent my mum, I’ve tried for years to love her but she’s been irresponsible and I do not like her as a person.
However, ever since I’ve moved out to attend university our relationship has been a lot better. Perhaps you’ll feel le...... reply
Same here dude I dont like my parents i got 2 hard slaps from my mom cause I wouldn’t go on a diet and I got around 7 REALLY HARD slaps and hair pulls and ear pinching from my mom because I don’t talk to them much and I don’t talk to them BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT and when I do talk they fucking ignore me my sister tells me “it...... 2 reply
As long as they are human, it's perfectly normal to hate someone. Especially when they cause you pain. It really doesn't matter if they are your parents or your siblings. Family should help guide and protect you. If they can't even do that for you then you have every right to feel resentment. And no one can decide whether what you feel towards them...... 1 reply
"is it ok to hate your parents?"
It depends on what you consider being ok. It will hurt you, so it is not really ok, but yes, you have got the right to hate whoever you need. Don't deny your feelings, they are there for a reason.
Also I wonder if you can really hate your parents, I think that more than hate you probably are very very angry. You wa...... reply
You should try your best to talk it out with them. Parents are an important part of our lives. They're here to guide us until we're mature enough to guide ourselves. It's not okay for them to beat you. I had a couple of experiences like this when I was younger so I know how it feels like. I can't say much since I don't know you, but if you have a g...... reply
You must never hate your parents or direct that hate to someone else. Tbh no one truly knows what kind of person you are in this website... so imma tell you... be honest with yourself. Tell you honestly if that's the issue then report them to any child support agency (I'm assuming you're a child because if you're not then you should not be ranting ...... 1 reply
regardless of what other people tell you, it's completely valid to have those kinds of feelings toward your parents. especially if they treat you that way, know that what theyre doing is bad and inexcusable especially weaponizing religion as a way to make you feel bad for having things that you love. it's okay to hate your parents and youre not bei...... reply
I get u . I ty not to hate them but sometimes it’s rlly hard to not feel resent. I wud forgive them if they sed srry but I’m still waiting for that day(▰˘△˘▰) 1 reply
