this is a hard one to just sum up but I think we need to have more grace for ppl at times. Now I'm not talking about those that try to normalize or downplay rape in stories but specifically when it comes to someone's kinks.
More often than not, kinks can develop from trauma. I also don't think we can ignore how the patriarchy and rape culture play...... 2 reply
Everyone has different opinions on it and personally I'm not against it. There are some kinks that are definitely concerning, but as long as people keep it in the bedroom I don't care what they practise. Though, a lot of people in real life end up developing rape kinks as a trauma response. When I was in the BDSM scene I saw it quite a lot, but I n...... reply
I think fantasizing about getting assaulted can almost be a somewhat messed up reframing of a traumatic situation. Approaching something like that in a safe place like in your own fantasies can sometimes happen.
I don't think people like to fantasize about it, but sometimes it can happen. It's a weird brain thing.
I like how the show Tuca and Bert...... 3 reply
Though having only one true opinion on this particularly is infact the correct and sane one.........the answer to it is understandable why it's insane..........mind is not sane for everybody (not saying this in a insulting way but the external controls of power does have an influence in this behavior).
Gosh this is embarrassing to say........might...... 1 reply
