Yep. Always a terrible feeling when your parent cries abt something related to you, but just remember that sometimes they're not crying BECAUSE of you but because of what they're doing TO you or about whats happening to you. Just because it's related to you doesn't mean you yourself had a hand in making your mother feel sorrow. reply
Me and my mom also fight a lot and I still love her. We have both started therapy and things have gotten a lot better. I also used (and sometimes still) feel guilty after we fought because even tho she was the adult in the situation I also wasn’t the easiest child to deal with. She suffered a lot of trauma when she was little that I can’t ever ...... reply
wait so SHE slapped YOU, but she’s the one who’s crying?! Nah she’s being manipulative as hell!! especially if she says or has said anything like you need to apologise to her for making her so upset that she slapped you and then started crying!!!! those my friend are crocodile tears deliberately meant to make you feel guilty when you did noth...... reply
