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Did I do the right thing?
I was friends with my ex for a long time before I blocked him on every social media platform. Yeah I was the one who broke up and I was the one who asked if we could be friends... We ended it on a good note and became friends. He was nice as a person and the conversations we had were entertaining but I could never see him romantically, he accepted that and we just went on as friends. But he used to keep sending me reels that said that I was the best girl he had ever met or that he wouldn't date anyone else but me and I was pretty uncomfortable by it, he's just a friend and I didn't see him that way and he stopped when I told him not to do it. I felt really guilty and selfish for being friends with him when he's giving hints that he still likes me, so one day I just decided to ask him straight up. He said that he is waiting for me to be ready for a relationship again so that I would give him a chance, no matter what my opinion on it was. I told him many times I'm becoming friends with him with the assumption that he doesn't think he has to wait for me. So this time I just blocked him immediately, not out of guilt but out of frustration and sadness. I don't regret that decision but I still feel so bad that I was the one who asked to be friends yet I'm the one who's blocking him at the end of everything...
As someone who is also going through the same thing I can assure you that you're doing the best thing you can. Unfortunately, he is showing signs of obsession. You don't have to feel guilty or regret for setting boundaries that he has continued to cross willingly. Your own feelings and beliefs matter; and if he is incapable of showing that he under...... reply