Do yall support or understand he/him lesbians or am I the bigot here?

I’ve been seeing some he/him lesbians on my pfp and didn’t really understand what it was. When I tried to research it was 50-50 about whether they’re valid or not. To be honest, I don’t see it. He/him are pronouns but pronouns aren’t gender, still, the label is there for a reason and disregarding it to claim you want a wlw relationship is crazy work to me. This is especially confusing considering many self-proclaimed he/him lesbians are want to be referred as men only??? I get multiple genders people exist but at this point it comes out as unable to come to terms with dystopia.

Another thing that made me less fond of this is how SOME he/him lesbians are proclaiming it’s non-men loving non-men. ??? I’m I getting woke in the wrong places or are yall reducing women to “not being men”. Sounds like misogyny in sheep’s clothing. Anyways? Yeah, tell my you own thoughts.