what do you think

im just curious, so if you have any idea about this subject, please enlighten me (ps i dont have any background or read any research about this)

ok i read some in socmed about women biological clockbut who are really to blame? women or men?
coz in socmed i always read that women are pressured to have children in certain age, that's why women in their 30s when it comes to dating they left their ex and rather look for partner that can provide (and saw men in comsec that men are not to blame because of women biological clockthat they left them so just move on)

hence i also read that women struggle to get pregnant because of men sperm quality (mostly if women can't get pregnant it's always women who to blame, when it's also men related coz of sperm quality)

like why it's always women focus when it's come to a topic of this and not question men about the struggle they give to women with also of their certain age. (ik men dont have menopause but their sperm quality can cause a lot of struggle in women ex: miscarriage, multiple miscarriage can take a toll in women body)

tbh couldn't care less since im childfree choice. idk why im like this im just furious how they always pressure and making women the bad one when it's comes of making family.