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im not ready to grow up. what should i do?
i’m 17 and i recently started picking out colleges that i’m considering going to, and then it dawned on me that i’m actually growing up. it kinda hit hard, i feel very sad and unprepared. i keep thinking about how i don’t feel ready to make these big decisions everyone wants me to make, ive spent my whole childhood having fun (which im grateful for) and figuring out who i am and i feel like i haven’t had enough time to be ready to go into the real world. i feel like adult life is much harsher and judgmental, i feel like people will judge me for not being where i should be at when im an adult. i seriously don’t know what to do and im running out of time. any advice?
This is probably really generic sounding, but as someone who has been in your position, I don't think that anyone is truly ever ready for the transition to adulthood. It's just that the uncertainty and responsibilities increase, and you have to learn to make the most you have as you simply keep living since you can't stop time. Honestly, college is...... 1 reply
