Parents

What are your thoughts on being best friends with your parents?

Some people might say, “I see my mom or dad as my best friend. I can tell them everything.”

Personally, I have a bit of a problem with that statement or way of thinking (maybe because I haven’t had a good relationship with my own parents). I feel like a parent should remain a parent like someone who guides you, sets boundaries, and takes responsibility for you. Calling them your best friend almost feels like you’re “downgrading” their role as a parent somehow.

And no, I’m not saying you can’t have a good relationship with your parents or talk to them about things that bother you. Of course, that’s one of the best things you can have with a parent! But I don’t think you necessarily need to share absolutely everything with them in the same way you would with a friend, or treat each other as if you’re the same age and on the same level.

I don’t know, maybe it’s just me who sees it this way.. What do you guys think?