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pls help, fam
so i had a crush on this girl and this girl also likes me. so it's mutual but we aint dating. just mutual relationship. i know that she likes me, and she knows that i like him.
the girl and i became friends, we hang a lot and pretty much know a lot abt each other. but then, i realized i was gay (bi) and i like this senior guy and the senior guy also likes me. we're dating now (secretly)
the thing is, the girl still thinks that i like her. idk how to tell her that i dont like her anymore and that im gay without hurting her. pls help.
Sorry if this sounds mean but... I don't understand why people even have these kinds of problems. Maybe it's 'cause I've never been in a relationship before but I don't think communication is all that difficult.
Just give it to her straight bro, tell her "yo, I'm sorry, I just don't have any feelings left for you anymore and I like someone else." ...... 2 reply
Well, you're going to hurt her either way. So, just let her know that you have feelings for someone else and want be with them, and break up with her. With relationships, someone will always be hurt, but you should be honest with her before she finds out about you cheating cause then she'll just hate you. reply
Just tell her straight up instead of dragging her on because if she wants something more what are you gonna do? admit it right? then crush her feelings right then and there. just tell her now because you’re not even in dating yet reply
Having been in a sorta similar position as this girl, this is my advice:
- start of the conversation by expressing exactly what you said in this post. “I’m not sure how to tell you this...I’m afraid of hurting you.” “you are a really important person to me.”
- confirm that you DID think you liked her/ you were reciprocating
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Relationships will always come with a bit of pain, but you really don't want to hurt her worse by hiding the fact you're in love with someone else and having her discover that. Trust me finding out that someone you like who you think you're close with is cheating on you is a thousand times worse than being told that they're leaving you.
Just keep...... reply
