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But the thing that works the most when I have compulsions is to tell myself I have to wait for a set time before I can do the thing, instead of just telling myself I can’t at all. Usually it’s like 7 seconds or something, maybe 60 at most. After the time is up most of the urgency has passed and I’ll decide to just not do it, or see how long ......   1 reply

Drink a lot of water and it’ll help clear your skin up (the healthy amount I mean. I don’t drink water because I’m actually secretly a kangaroo rat with a keyboard so anything more than a solo cup a day sounds like guzzling an ocean)   reply

No… i love feminism but i also love evaluating people honestly. You can do both. Humans are squishy and complicated and hard to fit into boxes without cutting important limbs off (first hand experience btw). Literally the only thing all men have in common is a Y chromosome AND THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS TO THAT. By saying “all men are ___”, you’......   reply

Vocabulary. As I get older I realize our education system is shit and i actually got really lucky in my reading abilities, bc i so often hear people asking what the definition of words are that i think are common or elementary level. I used to be a little bitch about it when i was a kid (tbh the superiority complex kicks in sometimes still), but no......   reply

Sub because after a few anime of hearing the same 3 voice actors over and over again with poor expressiveness and seemingly no range, I want to rip my hair out. If I sound pretentious, it’s because I am. I like studio Ghibli dubs tho GAWSH Howl pendragon could hit it any day and I 100% understand why I had a crush on Haku as a kid after rewatchi......   reply

Cats are awful   6 reply

Rather than trying to mimic people to fit in, I wish I’d just focused on being more at peace. With myself, with others… yeah, there’s a lot of things in my life that I’d love to change, but as time goes on I realize that those external things being fixed wouldn’t suddenly make me happy. Rather than trying to become the person who parties ......   1 reply

Finding out someone’s chewing when they go to hug me It always feels like someone’s playfully teasing the trigger of a loaded gun while it’s pressed against my head   reply

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Dear Santa, Please give me a smokin hot, rich, kind alpha gf this Christmas. You can deliver her underneath my tree pre oiled up. -Wisp   reply

Nope, dw! It doesn’t automatically mean you’re queer. A lot of women prefer lesbian porn just because they like… actually hit the pleasure points sometimes In my personal opinion, sexuality and romantic attraction labels should be based on what YOU want to do with your OWN body, not what you like watching others do with theirs. And sometimes......   reply

My school was normal, but my dad said when he was in school he was playing with his friends during lunch, and one of them took a brick and said “WATCH OUT, HAHAH!” And then he bashed in a dudes brains with it. Yeah the guy died. The killer kid was at school again the next day tho, no one said nothing Dad lore is crazy   2 reply

I’m very sorry to hear that your parents didn’t hold you enough as a child.   reply

I’m assuming you’re still in high school or below. Kids at that age (and some people older,) tend to misunderstand the weight of sexuality, I think. It’s not your identity at all. You’re a whole person +you like women sometimes, not just “queer” or “a lesbian.” I’d strongly recommend telling your friends directly that you’re unc......   reply

I feel like I just got assaulted why’d it wiggle at me? ╥﹏╥   1 reply