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Did you believe in love before you met your partner?? Did you actively look for a partner? What made you fall for them? Did you pursue them or did they pursue you? I'm just low-key feeling iffy rn bc everyone around me's getting into relationships and I'm just here still not interested in anyone. I'm wondering if I should start actively looking or should I just wait cause tbh idk

Can be manga/hua/hwa or novel pls I NEED IT（/TДT)/

Ok this is kinda an immature post but I've seen lots of people experience this before so like, how do I (genuinely) stop myself from getting turned off and wanting to drop the character I like when someone else tries to compete with me for them? Like, I just shared my new fav character on our group and someone said "No he's mine" And I just felt all interest drain from my body. I'm aware that I shouldn't be so bothered since it's inevitable other people like them as well but pls give me tips or something so I can get over this feeling bc I hate feeling this immature and stupid.

Like what song can you hear in your head rn

So I saw a tiktok of a girl saying she found a manhwa that's an omegaverse where there's a scene that the Alpha nests in his partner's clothing for days?? Omegaverse isn't usually my cup of tea but I'm so curious and can't get it out of my brain bc I didn't check the title before I accidentally refreshed

I've been bed rotting the whole day and a thought occurred to me, ngl, BL bottoms are strong asf. Especially mentally. If I was the one always getting forced into dubcon sex by my partner, getting creampied despite saying no, has sex more times than we go on dates, has a partner who gets jealous at every interaction I have, has a partner who does stupid hurtful shit to get my attention, and not to mention all those toxic BL plots where they're constantly being put through shit just because they loved the ML? If a normal person was in their position they probably would've been suffering from depression and have gotten tons of health issues already

I know this has been said a billion times before but PLEASE give me action reccs that has no harem or romance. I've been rlly enjoying Killer Peter and I wanna be able to jump to another manhwa as soon as I finish this bc I can't handle the grief of finishing an ongoing masterpiece rn. And please no "oH yOu Can jUst IgnOre The rOmAnce on tHis onE" NO. I WANT NONE. Side character romance is acceptable but none for the MC pls, I literally CANT ignore it

Not to compare suffering but based on your experiences and perspective what hurts more?

Have y'all ever been in one? Honestly I need to see other people's experiences or advice bc I feel like I'm in one rn. It's always me who tries to fix things, it's always me who chases and apologizes even if I'm not at fault. And all they have to do is come back and say that they were 'scared' and I'll forgive them again for the nth time even though they were the one who left me feeling like shit for a long period of time not even talking to me or explaining why they were doing it. I'm hurt and I'm tired, but I can't let them go bc I love them a lot.

Anyone else feel kinda uncomfortable when people do this? Like they're suddenly sooo into the medias you value out of nowhere and will show it off at random?

Bit of backstory, I had this guy who's liked me for yrs, at some point he even stalked me home, waited for me in the streets etc, basically it was bad and I was traumatized af but I was young, dumb and honestly still am very patient with people so I forgave him and left him as a friend (kinda) , I've also rejected him 2x and never have him room for any wrong ideas bc I don't chat or hang with him alone. Anyways it's been a problem for me since way before bc he'd constantly start partaking in stuff I'm interested in that I value LOTS (Im one of those ppl who just can't stand it when others pretend they like something when in reality they're just doing it for attention esp something I love) fandoms, communities, etc. idk. Need some opinions rn, possibly other experiences or just something to ground me in general.

Please don't be rude for no reason lol I'm genuinely uncomfortable with what he's doing bc he's done this for yrs

Let's say you transmigrate or reincarnate into the world of Mo Dau Zu Shi, you have a golden core and posess spiritual powers just like everyone else, among all the sects which would you pick?

SECTS: Lan, Jiang, Jin, Nie, Wen

And why?

So I have a friend that ghosted me bc of their personal reasons (even I don't know what exactly prompted them to) but we were super duper close, as in the type of close where we could tell what each other would say without speaking, looking at each other is enough to say a million gossips etc. I truly valued them and loved them (as a friend) so much, so it broke me when all of it happened, and I didn't even get a reason why. Its beed 6 months. I found out that they ghosted me on their bday when they ignored my art gift and well wishes (though we stopped talking during February I didn't realize it was her ghosting me bc I was also busy) so I didn't get to give them the gift I prepared which was:

A handwritten letter
Collage photos of us
Pins of their fav characters with my art
Printed image of the art of them I made
ALST figure
Haikaveh rings (we planned to cosduo them)

We had so many cosduos planned and I can't imagine cosplaying those characters without them now, because I made a promise. Honestly they were the most in sync friend I've ever had, and even now that I've been hurt and ghosted by them for the 3rd time (this time the permanence is devastating) which dealt a huge blow to my mental health, I still can't seem to let them go and accept that fact standing still.

So my question is should I ask a mutual friend a favor to give the gift to them? If all goes well there's a chance they might talk to me, if it goes awry then maybe I'll get some closure. Thanks for reading I really appreciate it.

Have you ever had a friendship that you felt was slightly unhealthy but also not? Like there's some aspects of it that are kind of red flags but also there's a lot of greens so you just overlook it? Idk how to explain it.

Idk if anyone else knows her or watches her, she's the sweetest rich person I've seen and I love watching her videos knowing that I'll never be able to afford shit like she does but anyways I've been thinking about it this past hour as I kept seeing remarks here on mgg and elsewhere about them wanting to just drop out and marry a rich guy (which honestly, same) but now that I've seen Beca Bloom that snuck us a peak to the life and perspectives of the RICH RICH, I realize that most actually loaded people will never date someone whos wayyy down their financial capacities (mostly because of security purposes and also bc it might trigger insecurity from their partners which is true). So basically I just made myself sad because an actual rich person will never fucking want me and it's so justifiable I can't even get mad at this imaginary rich person and now I feel miserable because I realize I actually have to fucking work my entire life without being able to reach that point of financial ability (don't mind me I came back from an overtime shift and I almost stepped on dead frog on the way home and also I didn't eat the whole day)

Idgaf if it's the most common ship on planet earth or a rareship only 0.0000000001% of the world knows about let me be the listener to your yapper

This is a no judgement zone

Like, have you ever been frustrated enough to personally go through the screen and send them back to middle school?? I don't know how some people COMPLETELY ignore a story's nuances and a characters' motivations and mischaracterize them. It's genuinely so frustrating to see when a well written flawed character just gets called something shallow like an 'asshole' as the readers refuse to see the reason why those twisted feelings and experiences led to them making those decisions. You can hate someone for their actions but these readers basically lack enough reading comprehension and moral compass to not understand that not every character is designed to be the hot bod perfect green forest perfect family perfect past perfect life MLs/FLs they see in 90% of stories.

People cry out "We need more character depth nowadays! " Yet can't even handle a flawed character who made bad decisions because of their own humane irrationality.