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My body is tired, but I somehow can't sleep... Got any video recommendations to watch to fall asleep???

I used to say "I HATE shoujo" cuz I was an idiot mf who didn't know shoujo is a big genre... I started hating on it cuz almost all of the romance shoujo manga I read(back when I was just exclusively reading manga) always has a pushover fl with a playboy mf ml. And suddenly as I was reading a manhwa, I realized almost all of my favorites romance manhwa r shoujo LMFAO

So from my reading experience, I've realized a pattern with shoujo manga/manhwa/manhua. With manga, it's the typical pushover fl, who is most likely a minor or significantly younger than the ml(if it isn't a school setting), and a playboy ml. Manhwa usually has a half and half chance. Could be a pushover fl, but there's definitely a lot of baddie fls who don't take any bs from ml. Manhua on the other hand??? Girl BADDIES. They don't take any SHTT from mls. But, unfortunately there's a TON of CEO/WEALTHHYY ml x poor fl who is getting cheated on by her step(or ig real) sister and ex bf/husband. Ofc there's some banger manhuas out there tho

Different timezones. I kid u not, ppl in the discord server I'm in r sooo fucking stupid. When someone says "I'm gonna sleep" some btch ass person will then say "but it's morning"... And no, it's not them ragebaiting ppl, cuz this has been happening since during the fucking pandemic where ragebaiting wasn't trending.

They genuinely believe that there's only one timezone... The mods r literally tired of dealing with ppl like this, cuz they r just so fucking stupid. Stupidity has really risen

There are some people who have told me to get myself checked for autism, as I have displayed some unique behaviors. But is it rlly worth it to get myself tested??? I've heard that if u get tested positive of autism, it will make it significantly harder to get jobs. Also, what will I even gain from knowing too?? Sure, I would definitely finally feel at peace knowing I'm not weird, or even feel out of place... Idkkk TT

And honestly, even I have thought of myself as one too... I know it's wrong to self diagnosed, but I can't help it when I so clearly see I don't fit anywhere.

Also, these are some of behaviors that my friend convinced me that there's a high chance that I'm autistic too.

I have so many sensory issues, can't stand certain textures, ESPECIALLY tissues. Can't stand certain clothes, some of them makes my teeth hurt, or just overall makes me feel overwhelmed and uncomfortable. Can't stand styrofoam and chalk, it was HELLL whenever I had to go upfront and write on the board... Can't stand concrete, it also hurts my teeth. Can't stand listening to music a lot, it literally HURTS and i desperately wish I was like the others who can constantly listen to music everyday. The longest I can stand is probably 30mins. I hate getting my feet and hands wet, just not fun at all. I have a strong sense of smell, and it rlly bothers me how I am the only one who can smell something. I have to constantly be on guard and change my entire behavior when it comes to other people, so as to not seem "weird" or mean. I have a uh idk how to properly say this, but it's like steps(??) of eating. First, I don't want my rice and food to touch. I need my food to be placed in a separate plate. Secondly, if I have regular rice and fried rice, fried rice(the better one, or my favorite) has to be on the top of my regular rice. And then, I have to carefully gather every bits and pieces of my meal(little bit of rice, fried rice, chicken, veggie, etc) and eat it in one bite so I can eat.. everything at once. And, lastly, for the last bite, if my food is for example, hotdogs, I have to keep the ends of the hotdog and eat it for last. For chicken too, I have to keep some of the skin and meat. And many many more...

Anyways, this message is getting too long. Sorry!!

Any ppl here who used to ship taekook back in the days, and now have woken up? What made u realize that it wasn't real?


I would watch a lot of taekook analysis videos and it was literally my favorite thing to do as I get home from school TT namjin was my GOATTT, used to rlly believe they were tgt too. And honorable mention is yoonmin(and sope ngl), but I just felt bad tat the other members didn't have any pairings tbh LMAO

I did NOT know Ricky left ZEROBASEONE.. Lowk sad since I liked seeing him with Kim ji-woong tgt(NOT a ship, they just look handsome as hell).

Do u guys have any controversial opinion(s)? If so, please share it.

My controversial opinion is that u can't ever have kids(by birthing or adopting) if ur not stable financially. No, I don't mean that u have to be rich, but u have enough to feed them 3 times a day, have shelter, provide any medical needs(like checkups with the dentist, u don't know how bad teeth can literally fk u up so bad), fun activities(such as school trips. I've seen wayyy to many of my peers feeling so embarrassed not being able to go somewhere because they can't afford to spend 5 dollars), and necessities such as clothes, shoes, and any school supplies.

AND anyone who wants to be a parent should be investigated. Do they have any mental illness?? Health issues? Debts?? (And more.)

Apparently, this is a very controversial opinion to have.. but I don't think so. This is such a normal opinion, imo. And I don't mean that u HAVE to be rich, nobody is saying that. But u have to have the means of doing the bare minimum, cuz being poor can affect kids tremendously. That's alll

Please tell me any passionate interest(s) u have! Idm even if the text is long, I love reading..!!

Do you think u would be an alpha, omega, or beta? If so, why?

Honestly, I'd 100% be a beta or a recessive omega. Likeeee.. no joke, this is kinda a tmi but my horniness is literally so bad that I'm glad I'm still not pregnant But then, my overall skills and intelligence is mediocre. Sure, I was a top student throughout the majority of my elementary to highschool, but it was mostly cuz I destroyed my sleeping schedule and studied like crazy. So yeah, I'd for sure end up as that one beta/recessive omega who studies hard.. who is also a slut(not saying omegas r sluts, but yk.)

Anyone has actual tips for bad anxiety??? Like real bad bad anxiety from someone who suffered/is suffering rn. I've struggled with anxiety for practically my whole life, but it's so bad now.


Also, can't get help from therapists(can't give reasons as to why.) Would love to, but I can't.

I hope ur doing okay. People here r just mfs who loves arguing and don't have any life irl, so don't let them bother u.

I immediately understood what they meant by "not too woke", and I understand that they should learn to not use it, but omfg they r literally bulling this poor girl who has no online friends. Imagine misusing one word, and immediately the same ppl she's talking about gets on her ass and is making fun of her for it. Y'all going in hell, trust

Is it just me.. or was I the only person who ever had BADDD BADD guilt whenever I had thoughts of gooning?

When I was very young.. I struggled with my horny ass still now, but not as bad as my early teen years. Anyways, when I was like prolly 10(?), I was constantly reminded that God is always watching. Ik that they didn't mean that in a bad way, and was just teaching a kid to not lie or something, but I SWEAR that messed me up sooo bad. As like I got my period, and my hornyness came... It was so bad. Like genuinely bad bad. It wasn't as if I was thinking about anything, my ovary was always screaming. I would legit just be feeling horny in the middle of class, and I had to deal with it. Honey shocking that I was so innocent minded lmao

Anywayss, whenever I got that feeling, my stomach would drop so bad that it gave me intense anxiety. Like y'all, it felt like I was a freaking criminal. Ofc I would, uhm, yk, do my "secret business", and after that I would feel INTENSE anxiety that I would literally beggedddd for forgiveness. Literally what I always did after everything lol And idk why, but like at age 15-16.. I eventually got rid of my anxiety and realized that I am not doing a bad thing and it's just a normal thing.

Have any of u guys ever felt this?? I swear I never heard anyone say this yet TT

One time, during an exam two guys started FIGHTING. Like straight up punching each other I didn't physically see the fight, but I did hear what happened. And guess what they fought about? A GIRL! Like sure, she's the "it" girl of the school, but dang y'all. Also, the girl legit fainted lmao we weren't allowed to actually get out of our classroom, but since I had my period and got a nurse's note of permission to go home early, I got to see some of it. Ngl, the girl looked like she was faking it LOLL nonetheless, as I was escorted by the guard to the gate where my guardian was waiting, I literally saw a dude who looked BRUISED UP. I was a coward back then, so I didn't rlly looked at his face, but I did see some blood on his shirt. It felt so surreal, like I can't believe I could ever experienced something like this. Anywaysss, the guy was apparently given permission to go home with his guardian cuz I believe they r gonna sue or something. That's it! Ik it's kinda anticlimactic, but I was not a kid who liked gossips and all of my friends were the same lol...

Any got some highschool drama? Lowk bored and I wanna hear some tea.

anyone got a story where the mc gets back at the ml for cheating? I'm so mad rn cuz I just found out the ml in "Monday'saviour" was whoring himself while they were fighting.. and this mf thought the mc was the ONE cheating. The audacity

I find it rlllllyyy disturbing when it's a reincarnation story, and the main character enters a child's body.. and then they start thirsting for a little boy/girl. It's soooo weird Like ur a grown ass person, why tf r u thinking how handsome he is, and even dare blushing??? So disturbing lol

Why do authors love making sht like this?? I don't get ittt

I'm a bl lover myself and had my fair share of shipping "characters" that ppl irl play, but omfg some of y'all r wayyyyy to mean to the women who r friends with some of these guys..

Specifically talking about what's happening with Katie b rn in the qsmp space. The way they talked to her just because apparently she got in the way of Ash and Ewron.. like y'all r disgusting. Genuinely. Multi fans too, the way that some of them REFUSEEEDDD to accept the fact that Katie b is canonically Nacho's (step)Mom and keep calling her aunt lmao Like atp, y'all just hate women. Genuinely. The tweets that r insulting her is insaneeeee!!!! Like those guys r STRAIGHT asf irl, I promise u they do not fuck eo. And most definitely don't fuck with u, with the way y'all r talking about Katie. And she never even intruded with ash and ewron's lore either, literally mentioned talking about her going to find/talk to ash's daughter got ppl HEATEDDDD!!

Lets not forget how ash literally said he is not comfortable with the shipping... Lmao but here they r still foaming out of their mouths and insulting Katie.

I don't like any story with having anything to do with the mc taking care of someone's sister/niece(and etc). Now I'm talking about those historical manhwa stories, where the mc basically acts as a maid for the "young mistress". ESPECIALLY if the mc herself is a young child too. Idk why honestly, but I just rlly dislike it. And it triggers me even more if the kid they r taking care of has some entitled bratty moments because "tHeY lIkE tHe mC".

(BE HONEST!)
For those crazy engenes who literally made some crazy theory on why heesung left.. Do you still have the same opinion? Do you still believe that he was forced to leave? That he didn't write that letter? That they made him leave the group to benefit another group?

I'm rlly curious, cuz I still have an acquaintance who unfortunately still believes this. And I'm talking about a hardcore crazy engene who spams ENHYPENIS7 everywhere. I can't even interact with her anymore cuz she suddenly had this weird switch, and now she's believing every bit of crazy delusional theories in the internet... Even encouraging about calling that one organization(about helping old ppl??? I forgot) and even believed when someone said they leaked bang pd's number.. mind u, this number could be an innocent person. Literally believing everything, and I can't even help her anymore. Like my guy heesung wanted OUT, like trust me.. their company wouldn't sabotaged their own group. It's literally their money maker. It's the fact that he can just up and leave despite his contract still not being over just shows how big of a deal he was.

Y'all seen that TikTok/video of the dude who made a makeshift cutter thing, to remove the veins on a Snickers bar...? Like DAMN. I never thought of it like that.. I feel bad that he's hyper aware of sht like this, but can't just admit that MAYBEEE he thinks of dih a lot.. and that could mean that he's gay.

I'm sorry, but how is this manhwa rated high?? The relationship was built of off the ml graping a man he just met, the mc is so dang easy, and ppl in the comments r saying there's redemption??? I'm alrdy at chapter 38, and the mc is literally smiling ear to ear with the mc, NO redeployment in sight. Do readers even know what redemption even mean???