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Honestly I'd hit them with some research about not respecting their children's privacy infringes on your trust, personal feelings of safety, and privacy. Do some research and present them with a case. Show evidence in the form of printed research articles about it and highlight the professional advice to respect privacy. Lawyer it up. It would also......   reply

Early 30s here. I didn't start dating until 21 and even then it was just one person who I lucked out with and we've been together ever since. (Not religious I'm just weird and I found another weirdo who I really like!) So you don't need to date a ton of people you just gotta find someone you click with and that can be difficult. It doesn't mean the......   reply

Heyo - college writing teacher here. Any type of essay is an argument, and one of the most important things is the structure that demonstrates your argument clearly and provides lots of evidence and reasoning to support why you are the ideal candidate. Depending on the required length of the essay, identify 3 main points that support your argument ......   1 reply

It's escapism babe the problem isnt the yaoi its whatever stressful situation you are needing to avoid. Maybe med school isnt what you really want to do? Need to reflect on what youre using yaoi to run away from.   1 reply

Can't speak from personal experience but one of my best friends is dating a masc woman and she is a sweet little cinnamon roll so I would guess don't listen to stereotypes   1 reply

I've been reading bl/shipping m/m characters in anime, tv shows, and games since I was in middle school 20 years ago. I enjoy bl because, beyond the fantastic storytelling and opportunities to see multi-dimensional male characters who fight with their feelings, I have personal insecurities and reading or watching too much m/f makes me think about m......   reply

College teacher here. How you study also probably impacts your study anxiety. Did you used to just sit down and read, take notes, or annotate for hours? That isnt really a feasible type of studying long-term. You can burn out so quickly, even if you give yourself rest. I suspect you might have a fear of failure or something along those lines that m......   2 reply

Take physical notes when possible in lecture. Or study by handwriting the class notes you took on your computer. Writing notes from lecture is good for base knowledge but if you want to make it stick, reflect on the content. Paraphrase or summarize in your own words and try to make connections. For example, if there is a concept that has a lot of l......   4 reply

Hello, college teacher here who teaches on sex and gender. People think sex (female/male) is binary but it's not. Biological sex is made up of many factors including chronosomes, hormones, reproductive organs, etc. Its not that you either have xx chromones, vagina, uterus, and estrogen OR you have xy, testes, penis, and testosterone. We actually al......   1 reply

With any addiction it comes down to if you are avoiding life or other obligations and you can't do anything unless you get your fix. I strongly recommend the book Dopamine Nation by Anna Lembke. She is a therapist and writes about several different kinds of additions (from sex to drugs to romance novels) and what it means and how to manage. The ke......   1 reply

I have nothing to support this but i wonder if some of this stems in part of cringe culture. Because younger generations (specifically gen alpha and below) grew up on social media and with the threat of being recorded at any time, a lot of them are terrified of appearing "cringe" or being outted for any of their likes which is why there is so much ......   reply

Finishing graduate school and trying to get a college teaching job but because my current governmental officials are actively trying to dismantle public education there are like no jobs so that's cool ╥﹏╥ feels like i just wasted 10 years of my life just to go back to working for minimum wage. But hey my anxiety has been more manageable for......   reply

Rather than romanticize I think just being open to new experiences and keeping excitement about learning new things and meeting new people helps improve the overall college experience. College is all about learning what you don't know and expanding your horizons and trying new things even if they don't work out. Getting stuck in a mentality of "I h......   reply

Do you have access to something like apple cider vinegar in your house? Its disgusting on its own but a tablespoon if that diluted with some water and take it like a shot always gets rid of my UTIs. Dont just wait for it to resolve itself babes you dont have to suffer look up home remedies for UTIs   1 reply

Non-Asian names. English, German, or French names just take me out of the story. I can't get over it.   reply

I mean, you're thinking about it for a reason. It doesn't make you stupid. Maybe you feel hurt by the situation. It sounds like he used you and distancing after being intimate can be hurtful. Kind of like, he was talking to you but then he got what he wanted so all of his friendliness was just a means to an end. If I'm reading the situation correct......   1 reply

I don't have adhd but my spouse does and he recently got a formal diagnosis. It was really validating for him to have the tests done that prove it and to what degree. I think it's worth going but it might be better to frame it as you suspect you have it and you'd like to get a formal diagnosis and explore options on how to manage it.   reply

First, if they want to see her in you they're going to no matter what you do. It's not in your control. Second, instead of holding yourself up to standards you perceive that you are failing, recognize that you are setting yourself up to fail. We do that when we hate ourselves because it gives us confirmation that we should be hating ourselves. Fina......   reply

Therapy, babes. There are reasons you feel this way, probably developed in childhood. There are deep wounds that lead to self harm and self hatred. See if you can make an appointment with your school counselor when you go back just so you can talk about the friend issues. Believe that you are worth getting help and worth learning to love yourself ......   1 reply

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