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19 02,2021
alright, honestly I really don’t care as someone who identifies as pan guy if anyone other than gay men read bl. It’s a type of manga genre and I personally read gl and straight love mangas too. So would that consider me a fetishizer for reading a genre that isn’t really directed towards me? No, as long as someone understands that fiction and reality can never cross it really doesn’t matter if they read it. Just remember gay men are people and not objects -
19 02,2021
title explains it it all
19 02,2021
Honestly both of the Lemon Demons songs are romantic asf, get you a mans that sings like that to you

Set for life
19 02,2021
Now that all the drama is out of the way.... I'm really bored and I really want to ease my mind by reading some fluffy bl/gl manga's/manhwa's and manhua's so can anyone please recommend me some fluffy bl/gl stories to me please?



-flower girl
19 02,2021
So I wanna come on my page tell me to die then block me so I can’t come back at u smh that’s some pussy bitch shit. Why don’t you unblock me I promise after a convo with me your bullshit suicide threats will become real u racist homophobic piece of shit.
19 02,2021
i mean as she should no one liked her and apparently she is 11 wtf anyways how yall doing
19 02,2021
jessica's acct got deleted emily is safe the #protectemilyatallcost corporation did what it was meant to do
19 02,2021
I’ve literally seen the same thing being said over and over to the point where I’m two seconds from blowing up into a pile of sawdust. Anyways, this is one opinion of many so you don’t have to see eye to eye, just stop and listen to the “fujoshi’s” side of the story.

Simply reading and enjoying the content of BL is NOT fetishizing. Fetishizing is making something inherently sexual even when it isn’t. As long as you aren’t considering all gay men to be your personal porn stars there is not much of a problem.

The reason why I originally got into BL was so that my sexual preference for submissive men would be validated. When I first realized that I was into femdom there was essentially nothing besides the extremely kinky latex-and-whips femdom porn available. I wanted something more raw, actual people having sex and not some hardcore BDSM.

All I wanted was for the man to be submissive and if both of them are dudes, guess what you get by default. A submissive dude.

Reading BL has actually opened many doors for me and has allowed me to become more openminded. There are lots of horrible things that happen in BL, but because of those things I better understand the issues we face.

I would never have learned to be so accepting of LGBTQ+ if I hadn’t gotten into BL in the first place. I have much to thank it for.

I also love reading BL because I always, consciously or not, compare myself to and ridicule female main characters simply because I reflect my personal action choices into them, which isn’t fair for them and makes it difficult to read for me. If the MC is a dude, guess what I don’t do. Exactly.

Everyone knows that bisexual women always have to deal with requests for threesomes from their partners, male or not. It certainly is not a comfortable situation for them, but they’re asked anyways. Then, if we take a closer look, do you see as many men getting asked the same questions? Probably not.

While I will not deny the fact that “fanservice” is harmful when a heterosexual man is constantly forced to kiss or act cutesy with other dudes (whom they are not interested in), but it truly doesn’t equal bisexual women becoming a walking sexual fantasy for someone. Most heterosexual women do not tell their heterosexual male partners that they want them to have sex with another dude, while heterosexual men on the other hand definitely do.

Bisexual women are a perfect example of an entire category of people being fetishized for something out of their control.

We’ve also seen fetishization work it’s way to Asian porn and we all know how fetishized and stereotyped Asian women are.

I read BL not because all men should fuck each other for my entertainment, but because I enjoy reading it.

As long as I know that this is fiction, some of the actions in these stories are absolutely inexcusable, and not to bring these interests upon real people there really isn’t a problem.

So can we stop with the “all hetero women who read BL are fetishizers” thing? You’re not woke, you’re just crying wolf and I’m sick of being shamed for what I like to read. Shaming people for reading BL is what we were doing 10 years ago.

Also, I don’t even make reading BL part of my personality so why am I suddenly a bitch because someone else made it their whole personality?

Also I’m not completely dismissing the fact that people do in fact fetishize the men in BL’s. I've seen many comments and people devoting their whole souls to BL which, in my opinion, is a little overkill.

I know that LGBTQ+ people don’t want to be fetishized simply because they are part of that and I 100% agree with them on that, but by simply stating anyone who isn’t part of their group and is reading BL is fetishizing gay men is definitely going a little too far.




TLDR:
It’s incorrect to say that women reading BL is fetishizing, even when they aren’t. It’s a form of media and I don’t hear this about GL. Also, suddenly women reading BL is fine when they're bisexual? Sounds like double standards to me.

Please feel free to correct me on anything. It’d be wonderful if you guys discussed your opinions as well :)

Anyways, peace.

Have a good day and thank you for your time
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19 02,2021
we need to do something as one of emily's mothers and the #protectemilyatallcost this is not accessible she started sending death threats to our child
19 02,2021
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To make it more fun make the hair color your irl hair color and the eyes your favourite, everything else is up to you
19 02,2021
This bitch just sent me a death threat lmaooo
19 02,2021
So like, I don't watch anime at all. I googled Itachi to see who he was. While scrolling down, I came upon this:
https://archiveofourown.org/tags/Uchiha%20Itachi*s*Uchiha%20Sasuke/works
https://myreadingmanga.info/kurosusutou-mako-futoshi-hiru-no-sen-asa-no-sen-yoru-no-sen-naruto-dj-eng/
Is this true guys? I'm asking those who watched Naruto. Did it really happen?





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19 02,2021
CAN SOMEONE PLS EXPLAIN ALL THE TERMS THAT HAS TO DO WITH
YAOI,SOUJOU,SHIENE( don´t know if i spelt that right), YURI,ETC (basically terms that has to do with this genre if this makes sense)
( FYI, I AM DOING THIS CAUSE I WANNA LEARN AND I DON´T THINK SEARCHING IT UP ONLINE WOULD DO IT JUSTICE, HENCE THE REASON I AM ASKING; SO ANY HATE COMMENT CAN BE KEPT TO YOURSELF AND SHOVED UP ASS( sorry not sorry)
19 02,2021
I will find the closest man who is willing and challenge him to a pp sword fight
19 02,2021
I am 12 years younger than hen (devil temptations if you don't know) and I am dealing with school.
I created a poem for you all about school!!

Oh fucking school why don't you go away
Oh fucking school why did you stay
We don't miss fucking school
I hated when I had to sit on a stool
Though I ain't in fucking school cause of the weekend
I stay up all night in my den

I want you to say you hate it cause I fucking failed my English test!(=・ω・=)
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Itova 19 02,2021
Have y’all tried warm Oreos?
19 02,2021
Show me every single picrew that you have. Please ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
19 02,2021

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did genshin impact

bro I'm so impatient about getting tsaritsaaa, and noyyy, when will this version endddd (i say as it's just started lol)

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Been in it since the beginning! My favorite game fr. Like all I do is read yaoi and play Genshin. That’s it

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