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I'm genuinely concerned some people don't even question why they read this or that or how consuming that type of media makes them feel. Like, do you guys reflect on what you feed your brain? I've read people say they don't understand why they like reading BL or just any genre in general, have you thought on maybe stop for a sec and ask yourself hmmm i wonder why i like reading this genre sm mmmm maybe bc i enjoy x or y and the way i relate to z.

LIKE?! am i crazy?? Is reading comprehension out of the question if not applied for school textbooks?? Whats the point of learning critical thinking in school when you can't even apply it outside with the stuff you consume daily like pls let's start question why we do the stuff we do and maybe you'll learn more about yourself than you think and idk probably heal something in your core you didnt even realize needed to be healed, like come on guys. And don't come at me saying mimimimi it's not that deep mimimi bc IT is that deep trust me, lets all regain our consciousness, did doomscrolling really fried your brains? PLEASE SAY NO ☹

Am I hopefully not the only person here who finds this such type of fujoshi red flag and straight-up disgusted of them? I’m talking about those specific fujoshis who will ONLY ever read or watch BL in manga, manhwa, manhua, novels, anime. Like as a gay man, I never trust people like this. Not even a little bit. Am I not the only who notice how weird they are? Because every single time, without fail, they end up spouting the most homophobic garbage you will ever hear in this fandom.

Twitter users is the biggest offender of this. It is actually unreal how bad it gets over there. I still remember month ago, a certain JBL smutty live‑action project were officially announced. These Jp fujoshi aka apparently the gays "allies" were screaming at the top of their lungs, being so openly homophobic like they saying “We only wanted this kind of content to stay in 2D! Nobody asked for a live‑action adaptation at all! Stop blaming us fujoshis for its existence or saying we supported it. We also think this is gross!”

This is exactly why I always depend live action BL especially the smutty one . Seeing those fujoshi gush and scream and thirst over every smutty mangahuahwa novel then turn around the second live action BL ever dare to act smutty they immediately find it disgusting? Suddenly the smutty is too much or repulsive? Like that is not just a preference, they literally being openly homophobic.

There’s such a difference between these people who only like liveaction BL and people who only like 2d. People who love live action BL or non 2D BL have well ok reasons because they enjoy seeing real acting, genuine chemistry, and raw, heartfelt emotions brought to life by actual human actors . Some of them might even say stupid shit lol like “I only watch thosekind of BL because Anime/magahuahwa felt for kids". But then there are those fujoshi who only stick to 2L BL is justt.... They do it because they genuinely believe real men, real actors, and actual queer people being intimate or in love is disgusting, wrong, or unnatural. To them, only fictional drawings are “clean” and acceptable.

How can they claim to adore stories about men loving men, yet deep down think the real-life version of that love is something dirty to be ashamed of? Do they not hear themselves when they say, “It’s fine in 2d, but gross when actual humans act in a show”? That is open, blatant homophobia. If they treat BL live action and actors like that, imagine how they must look at real gay men!

Those type of people think gayness is nothing more than a pretty fantasy trope made only for their fujoshi entertainment? That the second it steps off the page or out of the cartoon and into real human actor acting it, it suddenly becomes something gross ? It's not ok for them to consume and fetishize BL all day long, yet the people who bring those stories to life or live that love every day get treated like disgusting. Those type of people need to be called out more.

And don’t even ask “what about queer fujoshi who only like 2D?”, I don't trust them either.

They always say the same tired pattern that apparently gay men/intimacy only looks good in fiction, but lesbian love/sex is good both in fiction and real life. I’m so tired of this “gay men are gross in rl, lesbians are so pretty in both” double standard, it’s just repackaged homophobia. People who aren’t gay men calling gay male intimacy disgusting is plain homophobia. If actual gay men said half this stuff we’d be crucified instantly but 2d queer fujoshi likers say it nonstop and nobody bats an eye. Yet their whole profile are 99% yaoi. If they hate us this much, go read yuri instead and leave us alone. We need people to stop fetishizing gay men. Queer identity is no free pass, queer fujoshi absolutely can and is homophobic towards gay men too. At the end of the day, queer or straight, so many 2D only fujoshi are just homophobic.

I need some perspective. Recently, someone in my family caused a major financial mess, and my parents strictly asked me to keep it a secret and not tell anyone around us. but because i was so stressed and overwhelmed by the situation, i accidentally vented about it online to a small group of friends in a private Discord server. it was TMI, but i didn't share any real names, ages, or locations, and I immediately deleted the post after an hour once I calmed down.

but now, I feel horribly guilty for breaking my parents' trust. i'm also deeply anxious about whether someone might have screenshotted it, even though my profile doesn't contain any real-life info about me (it's just a typical Discord account). Should I confess to my parents that I slipped up online, or should I just keep it to myself, learn from it, and move on? I'm so lost right now... i feel bad

any bl where they both die at the end?

I know that some of ya'll have already done this.. But like, do you guys js trust your poker face when reading yaoi in public or in front of your family/parents? LMAO.

Cuz right now, at this moment while I'm typing, my mom is sitting beside me on the couch.. Though she's super locked in those low-budget chinese dramas and random romance audiobooks, so I'm not worried at all LMAOAOO!!

Js wanna hear ya'lls experience when you had to put on a poker face when reading the BEST parts of yaoi... Cuz I'm abt to master this skill.. Especially if my mom is fking weirded out by my likings for BL/Yaoi..( ˘ ³˘)

whenever i comment on it my cmt disappears

Have yall seen that they're gonna dox anyone who illegally distributes their animation All that for a rapeslop manhwa is crazy

My dad and mom beat the shit outta me last night and all my body fucking hurts this morning yo I genuinely don't know how our relationship is going to be after this because I'm still so mad at them and I don't want to forgive them. But the thing is, I need to go to the hospital for a medical checkup next week, so I still need my dad to drive me there. ts going to be so incredibly awkward...

Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How do you guys deal with your parents after a huge fight like this...

When someone comments that they dropped a certain bl or gl because of SA, why do so many people reply with "oh you just don't like reading peak" or "Then just don't read it" and be rude as fuck. I understand both sides but generally stop being so rude when replying to comments like that or weird calling it "peak"

im friends with this girl and everyone in our friend group ships us. we joke argue all the time and are very touchy. yes, i do have a crush on her and i think she does too but the thing is..shes straight. she calls me her wife, flirts with me over text but sometimes gets distant for a while. she also initaiates the flirty texts. i dont know if i should confess or not. what should i do?

Don't comment bs please

i read the entire series and the show and thought they were pretty good. the only problem is the fandom, with a large portion of them being weirdos who use AI in their ao3 fics

I have scoliosis and I alr have the brace for it but now… I’ve been having sm pain in my neck and its so bad that I have ti crack it every few mins to even every few seconds… I also don’t really knwo how to get a good posture for my neck cause I always feel like I’m doing it wrong. PLS help me

What's that one comment where the replies are so many that it takes 2-3 pages (or wtv you call it, section?)

Give me em tea
Spill the tea

I was skimming through mrm then started jacking off to this bara. Midway i realized it was real incest not even pseudo incest. Then i remembered I had once argued on manggago with someone who said real incest is better than pseudo incest. Their point was pseudo incest is just a disguise for fetish smtg. Idk i def argued but i let myself cum to that incest cause it was NOT pseudo incest remembering that weirdo’s arguments. So whoever i argued with, idk if your point was fair, but you shouldn’t have said that.

Turnips (?) in Italian are called rape and there's the questionable named but delicious fagottino a delicious dessert

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