hey guys i just feel horrible and useless today cause I'm failing all my classes even though i made the effort....
and i feel like a failure so... wholesome pics please?
and i feel like a failure so... wholesome pics please?
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Why? Like I'm a bt guy and I don't get the appeal of yuri because I'm not wlw so why do some straight girls read yaoi? Please don't hate I'm genuinely just curious.
NOT MY TEACHER YELLING AT ME FOR BEING LATE TO CLASS ALL THE TIME AND THEN WHEN I ARRIVE EARLY HE’S NOT EVEN THERE
https://www.care.com/c/stories/5208/19-things-you-should-never-say-to-kids/
Did anyone else’s parents say almost ALL of these things and relate to the explanations?
Did anyone else’s parents say almost ALL of these things and relate to the explanations?
HOW MANY MORE TIMES DO I HAVE TO FUCKING ASK
HOW BIG ARE THOSE TITTIES BITCH?
HURRY UP, I'M GETTING WEIRD STARES!
HOW BIG ARE THOSE TITTIES BITCH?
HURRY UP, I'M GETTING WEIRD STARES!
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I saw the posts that person is doing of that toxic “why are you mad stuff”
(and btw they are doing it to point out how ridiculous saying that shit is and this is in no way a call out post. I don’t have any problem with what they are doing)
And I thought I could add something to it: I’m gonna use the examples from the posts and some other common ones so if you’ve ever said that stuff or something like it, you can communicate your feelings is a healthy way instead of a toxic way.
Instead of saying: You’re the most anxious person I’ve ever dated. My ex wasn’t like this
Say: when I see you get anxious I take it as a reflection of me even though it isn’t/ it riles me up because I want to make things better but don’t know how/ it scares me because I have a problem with wanting control of your emotions even though I can’t ever have it
Instead of saying: You’re over reacting/ you’re so sensitive/ you’re imagining things
Say: I’m sorry I’ve hurt you. It’s hard for me to admit when I’ve done something wrong because I take it as a reflection of my whole character/ although I have a different perspective, I understand your feelings and would like to do whatever possible to make you feel better
Instead of saying: No one wants you. You should be grateful I’m still with you
Say: I feel the need to put you down “to my level” to try to make you stay with me. I get insecure when I feel like you are better then me or have other options
Instead of saying: you never trust me it was only one time
Say: I worry that because I messed up I’ve completely ruined this relationship and your opinion of me
Instead of saying: you’re crazy!
Say: not being able to control your emotions scares me
Instead of saying: you’re upset over nothing
Say: I don’t understand your perspective but I want to know how I can help you feel better
Instead of saying: I was just joking
Say: it’s hard for to admit that I can mess up/be cruel. I’m sorry I said that. How can I fix this?
Let me know if you want me to do more of these
(and btw they are doing it to point out how ridiculous saying that shit is and this is in no way a call out post. I don’t have any problem with what they are doing)
And I thought I could add something to it: I’m gonna use the examples from the posts and some other common ones so if you’ve ever said that stuff or something like it, you can communicate your feelings is a healthy way instead of a toxic way.
Instead of saying: You’re the most anxious person I’ve ever dated. My ex wasn’t like this
Say: when I see you get anxious I take it as a reflection of me even though it isn’t/ it riles me up because I want to make things better but don’t know how/ it scares me because I have a problem with wanting control of your emotions even though I can’t ever have it
Instead of saying: You’re over reacting/ you’re so sensitive/ you’re imagining things
Say: I’m sorry I’ve hurt you. It’s hard for me to admit when I’ve done something wrong because I take it as a reflection of my whole character/ although I have a different perspective, I understand your feelings and would like to do whatever possible to make you feel better
Instead of saying: No one wants you. You should be grateful I’m still with you
Say: I feel the need to put you down “to my level” to try to make you stay with me. I get insecure when I feel like you are better then me or have other options
Instead of saying: you never trust me it was only one time
Say: I worry that because I messed up I’ve completely ruined this relationship and your opinion of me
Instead of saying: you’re crazy!
Say: not being able to control your emotions scares me
Instead of saying: you’re upset over nothing
Say: I don’t understand your perspective but I want to know how I can help you feel better
Instead of saying: I was just joking
Say: it’s hard for to admit that I can mess up/be cruel. I’m sorry I said that. How can I fix this?
Let me know if you want me to do more of these
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Netflix.. We only have 1 thing
So I'm trying to watch the untamed..
My dad is watching haykuu
I... Dad please let me watch my thing
So I'm trying to watch the untamed..
My dad is watching haykuu
I... Dad please let me watch my thing
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i was the one who posted this:
http://www.mangago.me/thing/about/327652
so i'd like to say, im sorry if i hurt anyones feelings. black kageyama helped clear it up for me, thank you.
earlier somewhere in an answer i mentioned heterophobia and others said it wasnt real. i went on to create a post about it without much thought.
it was influenced by something that happened to me and my lover in real life recently. im just really shaken up mentally by it and mislabeled what i experienced. what i dealt with was bigotry by a wlw fetishist, not heterophobia.
these few lines sort of changed my mind:
"*most* people don’t have prejudice or bias against straight people. It’s not a big enough phenomenon to give it its own word."
"Straight people are not discriminated against. Straight people rarely receive bigotry because of how normalized being straight is. Straight people are not oppressed."
again, im so sorry to anyone whose feelings were hurt. im not completely convinced yet but i just need some time to heal after what happened to me. im not in the right mind rn
ps: im bisexual
http://www.mangago.me/thing/about/327652
so i'd like to say, im sorry if i hurt anyones feelings. black kageyama helped clear it up for me, thank you.
earlier somewhere in an answer i mentioned heterophobia and others said it wasnt real. i went on to create a post about it without much thought.
it was influenced by something that happened to me and my lover in real life recently. im just really shaken up mentally by it and mislabeled what i experienced. what i dealt with was bigotry by a wlw fetishist, not heterophobia.
these few lines sort of changed my mind:
"*most* people don’t have prejudice or bias against straight people. It’s not a big enough phenomenon to give it its own word."
"Straight people are not discriminated against. Straight people rarely receive bigotry because of how normalized being straight is. Straight people are not oppressed."
again, im so sorry to anyone whose feelings were hurt. im not completely convinced yet but i just need some time to heal after what happened to me. im not in the right mind rn
ps: im bisexual
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but why are you making it seem like it’s my fault? I treat you way better than anyone else.
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I don't see much of us here, so I'm just curious ^^
Also, when did you find out?
Also, when did you find out?
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You text guys all the time, so why is it only bad when I text girls?
