Wow, so I wasn't expecting a question like this nor for so many people to express that they feel the same way. I, too, don't "feel anything" by that I mean it's very hard for me to experience emotions and I have a hard time communicating and expressing myself.
I wouldn't call this experience "normal" but it certainly is more common than you think...... reply
I’m not sure if it normal or not but it’s the same for me .my family never rlly liked me and I’ve had bad experiences with friends .whenever I see someone from my family sick lie my older sister or something I legit feel nothing I don’t feel concern or sympathy but a bit of annoyance.sometimes I hav to pretend to care.its hard I don’t und...... reply
Here’s some of my thoughts of the reasons:
1) When you experience desensitizing and traumatic experiences you end up unable to feel more due to being exposed to the extreme conditions
2) depression (for me personally but any mental illness also fits) messes with your brain
3) age-I noticed how it’s easier for older people to say they love you/...... reply
I saw this question about wanting to learn languages, and it hasn't been updated for awhile, so why not start a new group to learn? I mainly wanna learn Japanese, and maybe korean. If you're interested, hmu on insta @unequivocallydumb Idk how we'd learn, but hey we'll figure it out together!
It's pretty normal, at least in my perspective. Though I'm not saying that you can't, it may be possible that you subconsciously not recognize or acknowledge-feeling numb to- some of these emotions... reply
I'm bi/pan, and I think straight ppl can read yaoi all they want tbh.
I advice you read this post, maybe you can use it to answer to these ppl, I find it very interesting. Here: https://falka-tyan.tumblr.com/post/614684012999475200/how-do-you-talk-about-the-fetishization-of-mlm reply
you can as long as you don’t disrespect other people and don’t fetishize in the men Im a straight girl (fujoshi) and i do my best not to offend people and when someone thinks it’s disgusting i just let them be reply
Wow and here i thought there was something wrong with me.
I am also the same but in my case my mom outright told me that I am cold person. I like my distance and i really like keeping to myself. I struggle to sympathize and in worse case scenarios I actually end up irritated by other's situations (well i think thats going off tangent). reply
I've only ever shipped fictional characters and sometimes, jokingly, ship the personas of youtubers, etc. It's absolutely wrong to fetishize gay couples in real life.
I think that you should say as a response, say that it's ok to like fictional gay couples. I don't condone fetishization, but people will be people and they'll do what they want. Jus...... reply
Heyy, im an INFP too
I haven't take that many personality test tho, so far just mbti, and heck yeah they're true. I'm an INFP to soul. I mean sometimes it helped remind me to not be overly sensitive or hurt my self drowning in over thinking, so yeah guess it's accurate 1 reply
In that case I guess gay people can't read Shoujo manga/manhwa, Men can't read yuri manga, straight people can't watch movies like love simon, and everyone can stay inside their only little sexuality boxes, hm?
If it's an argument about yaoi tropes being toxic I get it, but bl in general as well as shounen ai are fine.
As an artist myself, I w...... 4 reply
Dude, seeing all the comments kinda annoy me, I rly just want to read some yaoi and end it there. I like reading gay relationships, if you don’t like me, you don’t like me. I don’t care. I don’t go out of my way to point out gay couples, I ain’t that shallow. I don’t like seeing this hate, I really just want to curl up and read some tea...... 2 reply
Idk I mean if it’s not causing any particular harm I don’t think it’s wrong. I mean yaoi is just another genre, just the difference being it’s has more like (this is to mean no offense) homophobic people, and like the topic is more sensitive than straight relationships. In the end sayin that yaoi ain’t realistic or like it’s not done ri...... reply
Omg no I'm the exact opposite owo I used to be really gloomy and not talk to others due to my personality,with a lil touch of anger issues,I curse at everything in life and I dropped out. After really considering it I then decided to go back to school and met the bestest people I now call friends. They changed me so much like who was I before?? Why...... 1 reply
people are allowed to have their own tastes. you like guys. what's better than one guy but two guys?? together???? it makes sense.
i prefer bl at times because as someone with a vagina, seeing sex scenes where a vagina is involved makes me uncomfortable. ive gotten used to het adultoons, but it's still awkward for me. some people just have tastes. ...... 3 reply
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