i dont think you should worry. As long as you dont obsess over it.
personally it's not something i tell people i read, maybe casually to some i know. Do you like BL as an artform or genuinely IRL as well? as in, fantasize about IRL people you know or ship guy friends, or not being aware of a lot of the yaoi tropes being ok only in fiction. Cause t...... reply
Predictably painful. Everyday is just the same, not because it's quarantine but because it is how it is. I never usually talk to people (which reminds me, I should maybe... find friends here.) And I struggle keeping up conversations with people I used to talk to. Even though that happens, I can't help but feel lonely and guilty. It's a constant bat...... 2 reply
I stopped calling myself a fujoshi a while ago after knowing its real meaning but that didn't stop me from reading these stories since they function for me as a way to disconnect from the real world and just enjoy reading it superficially. I do get your point of you thinking of being disrespectful to your LGBTQ+ friends, I am a part of that communi...... reply
Who is your favorite author and which is your favorite manga of that author?? Just one is enough. One of my favorite is Tokishiba-sensei's Dos Obake Ga Nekasetekurenai. It's unforgettable... Yours???
Its true that there are some who view the term ‘fujoshi’ as someone who fetishizes real gay men but thats their misunderstanding of it. Theres no problem in calling yourself a fujoshi as long as u arent doing anything like shipping real people aggressively! As long as ur j someone who enjoys reading yaoi and shounen ai just keep enjoying it ur ...... reply
I have been wondering the same thing and if I’m honest, as long as your not making up tropes for gay people, realizing that gay people aren’t the same as the people in the story, it’s fine. I have done that I i don’t consider myself a fujoshi but if you do that’s ok:) don’t let people get you down, alright? reply
I read a lot of different types of stories like, BL, GL, shoujo, or shonen ( mainly the BL genre tho ) and have considered my self as a "fujoshi" for a long time. But recently, I've seen people people talking about how it is bad being a fujoshi and that if you use the term, it means that you fetishize gay men and it is disrespectful to the LGBTQ+ community. I don't really like the sound of that because I have a few friends that take part in that community. It makes me really guilty and scared, what should I do?
I know that the genre BL can also be divided into shounen ai or yaoi, while I do read both, reading those hardcore stuff was often use to relief stress, ( like how other people watch porn or read hentai ) but now it is concerning me if it is even okay for me to do this anymore.
First of all I'm 16 and pretty damn young
And second I'm asexual, like I could literally live my entire life staying a virgin and nothing would change reply
You're full of shit, homos don't decide to straight people what to do and what not to do...and don't get me started on this "cultural appropriation" crap!! I could argue the same about stealing the rainbow as a queer symbol and associating the rainbow with the LGBT as a cultural appropriation!!......males identifying as women should be gender appro...... reply
Yo, sexuality is fluid, indeed. Dude. I didn’t just spend my time replying for it to just show the first sentence. Smh. Anyways, I totally agree! It depends on the author of the content. If they show the struggles of a person or couple about love including self love, or are a bit unrealistic with love at first sight or Prince/ess Charming or R-18...... 3 reply
So what you're saying is that homosexual people should just write homosexual
pornography and heterosexual people should just write heterosexual pornography?
Then can homosexual people write heterosexual pornography? Then, is that
a form of disrespectful fetishization of heterosexual individuals? 2 reply
Well this is actually a very hard question to answer! But I'll just tell you my honest thoughts altough I'm still not sure which side I stand on myself.
As a pansexual woman I absolutely agree with what you said about LGBTQ+ content that should be more normalized and shared through the media more often. But I don't really know about what you mea...... 5 reply
hi i’m snowé! i’m trying to find LINE friends just to talk to ppl! if i get enough ppl i’ll probably make a gc so we can all get to know each other. ID: yaoizxd comment ur line ID and/or add me on line! :)
hi i’m snowé! i wanted to know if anyone wanted to be friends with me and if i get enough ppl i can make a gc? ID: yaoizxd comment ur line ID and/or add me on line!
For me it’s “ you’re so skinny” or “why are you so skinny” I hate it, I’ve been told this so many times by my friends, family or even random persons as jokes and most times I laugh it off but inside it really hurts. Like do you think I want to be this skinny? don’t you think I want to gain weight?Once I was in class and my classmat...... 2 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
