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Hello. I don't think this will get seen by anyone but oh well..I've been a BL lover for a really long time and I don't have friends who enjoy stuff like this. I just made an instagram profile from which we can talk about yaoi and bl (and more things owo). I've really wanted to make a public account where I can express what I feel and stuff like that, but I actually can't since I'll just get bullied and get shamed. If you want to, leave your @ on insta so I can add you and we can talk about stuff!

I prefer hyung because it's more intimate let's say while with sunbae there is like a distance between the lovers. Does this make sense ?

Ah Shojo

Who hasn’t read a Shojo? Sometimes something you think wouldn’t be a Shojo ends up being one. For example X/1999. It’s a Shojo, a very dark and bloody one.
Now for the stereotypical Shojo we all think about, I don’t really read it. I hate reading about some stupid beyond reason girl holding up with the unbelievably hot, super smart guy. In reality, a guy like that would not be interested in a girl like that unless all he wants from her is sex.
That is not to say in hate all stupid or shy Shojo heroines. Surprisingly, I like Tohru from Fruits Basket. She’s stupid, unrealistically kind yet it kinda makes sense why Kyo fell for her. But! My ultimate favorite Shojo heroine has to be Kiri from Beauty Pop. The story itself is not something to write home about but she carries it well. She’s unruffled, doesn’t care about what others think about her and just goes along at her own pace. Haruhi from Ouran is similar to Kiri in some ways, but I didn’t care for her romance with Tamaki. I would have much rather liked her to end up with Hikaru. Her ending up with Tamaki was such an obvious move that it disappointed me. I guess Hana from My Heavenly Hockey Club is actually more similar to Kiri, but I have not read the whole thing so I don’t know how she reacts to romance.
Some of my faves shojos are:
Natsume’s book of friends
Geneimuso
Beauty Pop
Fruits basket and Fruits basket another
NG life
RG Veda
Yumekui Kenbun
Game x Rush
I’m sure there are others but I can’t remember them right now,

So since my parents have to stay home more often because of covid I see my step dad more often and I’m realizing a lot of wrong things that he does that really makes me uncomfortable. He makes jokes on very sensitive topics and thinks that it’s funny and ok to say, and is also very hypocritical about how people should act (men vs women) and it all just makes me angry every time he’s around. I dont know if it is my place to speak up or not....does anyone have any advise?

The stereotype (or rather, a good chunk) of Asian parents appear to have a hard time being open about their affection for their kids. Like there's even a saying in Chinese "To hit is to show affection, to scold is to show love".
Like "I love you" being said by parents of an older generation is very very rare, and if you have those parents then... well, great.
Strangely, I saw a Thai Ad about a mom with a bad attitude to her kid, but the "truth" was that she indeed loves her child, just have a really sucky way of expressing it. By well, scolding and berating her child whenever her child does something wrong which escalates occasionally. The plot twist? Of course, the mom has to get an incurable disease and show how much she had saved up for her kid's future, then show the kid crying and saying "I'm sorry" and "I love you too mom" (It's an insurance ad)
This is kind of an Asian trope.
Then I just read a Chinese comic strip showing how whenever a child is in pain like coming home after getting rained on, or having a minor cut, he parents would be dismissive and even scold the child. But the end would always be that they would show concern (or berate the child for not asking for help) by being aggressive, of course by then the child doesn't have any trust or feel concerned by their parents.
Then the stereotype in India is you have o be a doctor, engineer, lawyer why? Because of the parent's love for the child to have a better future.
... Are stereotypical Asian parents just tsunderes?