my last relationship kinda damaged me, i wanna fall in love but i can`t find someone who can keep up with me i guess? but i think that i`m not even looking for a relationship even tho I had a lot of confesses since the last 2 years or so, i refused them without thinking, it`s maybe because sometimes I can't feel anything, or it`s maybe because i`m ...... reply
I want to be in a relationship but I'm just so comfortable with being single and plus, I'm too lazy to be committed to anything so I choose to remain single. Gotta admit sometimes I feel lonely tho. 1 reply
I personally believe I am single because humans are tiring, needy and too much work. Also because I find relationships a bother and no one likes me anyway. And I'd rather fantasize about 2-d characters. 1 reply
Probably ten count. Around 2015/2016 at that time my tab broke so my dad gave me his smartphone which I still use till now, I'm not sure how, but at that time I read lot of shoujo, horimiya for example, I read it at an app at first, but somehow, out of nowhere I started to read manga using chrome, I think that's what brought me to ten count. But, I...... reply
I won't tell them. Even if they already know, I would fucking lie bout it. But, I think my dad is with me read nsfw stuff but not that goddamn gay stuff. It's not like they narrowminded I think, it's just because they don't used to this kind of culture, my mom is 50s and my dad is 60s so they're quite old to this kind of thing. Also we lived at Ind...... 2 reply
Seems to me that the two of you are not a good match and neither of you is actually in love with the other. In fact, neither of you are that into each other, coz if you were, you would really want to know the other person's interests. You are forcing yourself while she can't even be bothered. You are trying to make it work because this is your firs...... reply
It seems like she's not putting in any effort to compromise. I don't want to seem rude or anything, but I don't think that a relationship like this can get very far if nothing changes...it seems like she's not putting your feelings or interest into consideration. I suggest that you tell her that something needs to change because you can't go on lik...... reply
Well, I'm not gonna judge you or her and tell you you're wrong or she is because you never know what really happens between two people in a relationship.
To me, the way things are now in your point of view, what you should ask yourself is : won't your feelings for her wear out after making compromises after compromises on the long run? Won't you e...... reply
A relationship will never work if you 2 are polar opposites and cannot compromise or tolerate and your partner seems to not want to do either END IT!! you will never be able to be 100% yourself or comfortable around your partner. reply
I honestly feel bad for you all things considered but to be honest your relationship seems to be in the beginning phases of a toxic relationship.
It's natural that in a relationship there will be disagreements, that's usually resolved through compromises and such. I could go on and on about why i think you're relationship is going down a toxic roa...... reply
I'm at the age where I could be finding someone to spend the rest of my life with. However, I'm so busy I can't. I'm starting to accept the fact that I'm going to die alone honestly( ̄へ ̄) 3 reply
Hmm well idk if someone will see this and give me an answer but I have NEVER dated or even kissed bc my parents were too strict but now I'm 17 and I.....I just don't know how to love man! Like how do u do it? Like loving someone bc now even if my brain says I like someone I only see it as that there personality is nice or there a nice guy and bc o...... reply
Honestly, The fact that u said u need at least 5 years to live together threw me off. If you can't commit to live together after 1 year or 2 years then just stop going in relationships unless you are a kid ofc an average young person can't possibly be comfortable to that yet, but If you are grown you should prolly live together.
As for her she may ...... reply
To be completely honest she's being incredibly unfair to you. I could understand not doing the things you wanna do if she really isn't interested in them but then to turn around and force you to do the things she wants is such a shitty thing to do. And the part where you told her that you would want to wait like five years and she just laughed and ...... 1 reply
Hmm it's really up to u man, on how u wanna tell her and if u wanna tell her but as in the other comments it's best to discuss it with her on how ur feeling and also ask her how she is feeling about this and does she have any problem in this relationship and if she opens up to u that's good! And try to discuss it while doing relaxing and just casua...... reply
Compared to all the people who answered before me - yes, my parents know.
My mom is an artist, so she is open to this stuff. Also, she watches gay series and gay movies, and she also watched some good yaoi anime, but did not read yaoi manga. Moreover, to her personal project she draws gays!
So like, when I began reading yaoi I felt a bit awkward ...... reply
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