im afraid of balloons. Anything that causes an inflated balloon to make any sort of noise makes me have a panic attack. A non-inflated balloon or a balloon just vibing is fine... anything else ain’t it reply
yea I know how you feel, but the thing is, the target demographic for bl is NOT the lgbtq community. it wasn’t meant for the gays, lesbians, and everything in between. it targets straight women/girls and thats why they dont portray it actually or at all. And please remember that all works are fiction. with the underlying misogynistic theme of bl ...... 3 reply
I really hate the fact that they make the bottom look so girly because that seems borderline fetish to me. And the trope where “I’m not gay! Don’t think for a moment I’m gay, but I still wuv you.” And they never switch either. They’re two straight dudes who have never had sex with a guy and then the sex positions are suddenly set in sto...... 2 reply
Hi ! Bi girl here !
I understand the way you feel about Yaoi and I'm agree with you for most part. As a psychologist student I have a different point of view about Yaoi. But first of all, it is known that yaoi was created by women for women so I don't expect them to be something about real gays people when I reading them. Most of the time, I take ...... 1 reply
nothing much but it's still haunt me... it wast happen in last year, february i still remember our college decide us to go bali for company visit... but we have free time in the night
so in day 1 in the night one of my guy friend ask me to take a walk with him and he need to go to circle K its already midnight but i said yes and we go together unti...... 1 reply
To be honest, I've experience that with a special friend of mine. I got confuste about my sexuality at first, like 'WTF, WE'RE BOTH FEMALES'. So, I told one of my girl mates about it, and she sympathize me and tell me that, maybe I was just confuse about my feelings towards that certain friend of mine. I spent a lot of time thinking about it. And y...... reply
i want to read everything but my head is about to explode. to think that this lot of perpetrators are still out and about horrifies me.. im so sorry to everyone and hope u find peace. a big takeaway from this is to NEVER trust anyone with your child. not even relatives which is so twisted. mines an uncle case and even living with him up to this day...... reply
First of all, we're best friends for a half-year round already but we've known each other or seen each other already in a community we both go into for more than 2 years already I think? It just took us some time to be finally friends more than just strangers around the same community.
We became best friends through a game that we're playing for as long as our friendship is already, we even made more friends and a group of people to play along with. We grew even more closer as we get to know each other and our relationship with our exes, because for some coincidence we're both fresh from break-ups on the same day we get to be friends. Then days, weeks, months pass by; we became somewhat platonically romantic with each other even after our meet-ups. Which this makes me feel like I'm somewhat special or her being special for me. It's so confusing, but I kept silent and went along with the flow. But as days pass by I come to stressing this out lately because she makes me feel anxious, jealous sometimes that she doesn't even mean to.
And just recently, she's kinda distancing herself at me. I don't understand why because she isn't that type... She's open but won't reply to me. Nor seen me, even at the game we loved to play together. She wouldn't play with 'just me' but she'd come to play with me only if we're with the others. It makes me feel so anxious and sad that I don't understand why... we even have so much more plans to do together in the future.
I'm not sure about confessing yet nor for any relationship yet so I just kept silent. But as my best friend? This is making me sad. Why is she doing this? I just don't understand, I think it's better if I just kept myself shut and let her be if she wants to distance herself out.
idk if i really count, but as a gay / mostly aromantic trans guy i read it to sort of fill a void within me lol. i like seeing characters interact since i don't really feel romantic attraction myself so it kind of brings some romance into my life from time to time.
i guess the reason their behavior is portrayed the way it is is highly due to the ja...... 3 reply
Its not really sexuall harassment but more of a kidnap. It happened when was in an internet cafe near my Nanny's shop. It was kinda night at that time about around 8 PM. There were still a lot of people playing games during that time but most of them are children at my age, specifically minors in the age of 8-12. I was currently 8 years old when th...... 2 reply
I'm pansexual and I love reading BL, but I agree that it doesn't represent the community at all. I hope it was used to teach people more about the LGBTQIA+ community. I've seen a lot of BL where the character would be outed and the other extra characters would be like "wow, it's my first time seeing one in real life!". (yes those are the exact word...... 1 reply
I think it depends if the bl is explicit or not. In too many explicit bl everything is around sex and the plot just becomes void once the protagonists bang. It’s also crazy how some don’t give a damn about consent, too often I felt uneasy reading because the character keeps saying no all along and I mean that’s just rape..
So that’s why I t...... reply
Yeah, I was very naïve and didn't take into account what was happening fast enough. A guy kept asking over and over to suck me off and I eventually caved in because I wasn't sure how to respond. While he was doing it I suddenly remembered an adult doing the same thing to me when I was 7. It was not a fun night, but instead of living a victim narra...... reply
It wasn’t really sexual harassment (though).When I was around 14 years old, a male friend of mine tried to « seduce » me (he was 2 years older) It was the ex of my friend... He was very uncomfortable, by asking me my boobs’ size, approach my face with his own, he was always sticking me in such a possessive way... When he « declared » to...... reply
There's this one Shounen ai manga called Sasaki to Miyano. It's really cute, realistic, and has great art. Summary: Kouhai is a fudanshi and a Senpai finds out, but the Senpai is nice and starts to read BL as well. Really cute :) 1 reply
I'm pansexual and I don't really identify with any gender ...
but most likely I would be a gay guy ...
oh but my body is female unfortunately ...
so I would say yaoi is stimulating for me even if it is extremely unrealistic Σ( ￣□￣||)
for a person who also has real anal sex it is sometimes really bad to read
as everyone just has sex withou...... 2 reply
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