i never go out, except for going to school. and when i'm at school i think about yaoi throughout the day, like the ones i really want to read, and have read. i would literally feel empty without it, or like a part of me was missing. whenever i see my favorite yaoi getting an update, it makes me more ecstatic than seeing a family member again, or pu...... 1 reply
I'm arospec, and reading BL it is nice to observe romance without needing to reciprocate it. It's also nice to have discussions with people about stories. I've learned to avoid trolls more, online and IRL tbh. I like that I can enjoy a work and still pick out its flaws, or how I can think of some of my old favorites like "wow that was actually prob...... reply
i dont want a screamer or a bossy snotty nose brat disruptting my alone time with me and my cats, all kids are good for are chores is what my stepmom taught me. Also climate change and the fact i hate people. reply
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I think yaoi has affected me positively. Whenever I read it, I get delightfully happy, and when I go through a rough time, which I do a lot, it makes a big difference. I think it also helped me understand and accept myself. I'm pretty gay and I never even thought about it until I started to read yaoi, I just felt that it had nothing to do with me. ...... 1 reply
Litteraly nothing, since yaoi is basically porn. And how porn could change anything on your life execpt the fact you discovered some new fetishs. It just makes you feel a bit better When you get bored cuz reading yaoi is personally not my principal activity in my entire life . Maybe it affected my point of view in digital art since the webtoon art...... reply
so, it’s affected it both negatively and positively. I was super into Yaoi which made me super into anime, and I met this guy who I started dating, and the only thing we really had in common was video games and anime. He then proceeded to break up with me over text. Shortly after that, I fell super deeply into depression. Yaoi was one of the main...... reply
it affected of how i think certain things in places, like when im in a church all i could think of is two males doing it, like it wasnt really a good time to think of that lol. i couldnt even sleep without thinking about yaoi ┗( T﹏T )┛ 1 reply
well idk if this is severe but when i was 4 i came to england from nigeria i didnt have any friends in nigeria on the contrary i fought all the time with my peers so when i came to england i didnt know how to make friends and it didnt help cuz my mum was always at work and i had left my dad in nigeria i kept to myself and was hostile towards everyo...... reply
I have two friends, one of them is my first ever close friend, we met six years ago in a drawing class. I met my second friend three years ago and she became my best friend. I don't have many friends, if we're being honest I don't need many friends, I'm okay with having a small group of people.
My relationship with my first friend is quite bad, no...... reply
There are 6 of us in my little friend circle, and we've been close friends for around 5 years now. I don't have any other "close" friends- but i have whole lot of acquaintances. Recently, ive been feeling uncomfortable around my friends, since it seems they are all closer with each other than with me. i feel a bit like an outcast with my only group...... 2 reply
yes. i often feel lonely, even with people around me. i used to feel really depressed when i'm younger. growing up, i had a few important people leaving me behind, like i didn't mean anything to them.
developing anxiety (which gets pretty bad sometimes) and having my parents in denial later on kinda lead me to lose trust in people, which kinda le...... 1 reply
Yes, sometimes I also get panic attacks, which is weird since I'm almost always alone so I should be used to it by now. I use a lot of background noises to help with that because it makes me feel like I'm not actually alone or it keeps my mind busy, like watching a video, a movie, listening to music or something when I can. Because if I'm left alon...... 1 reply
I get cases of loneliness in most places, especially around people i know like around campus. However, i have had severe cases of loneliness when i am alone, like at night. Thats one of the main reasons why I don’t have a very good relationship with sleep. reply
I'm a lesbian, butch and tomboyish to the bone. i have a hard time relating to wlw media, mainly because i always think some gross dude is sitting behind spanking to it, so mlm media it is. besides from the gay shit i create myself. ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ 1 reply
yeah, it became part of my life since I was high school. for me it is a matter of your mindset on how you deal loneliness in a particular degree. I don't have specific way of dealing it, I'm just trying to be resilient as possible whatever happens. Also, I don't know anymore what causes my loneliness since it is mixed up all the fuck ups that I hav...... reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!