it doesn't... matter??? consent is a YES. It's has to be a complete and clear yes, he shouldn't have to push him off???? that isn't his job?? he didn't ask to be sexually assaulted. and Jaemin forced himself on Tom multiple times as well
i'm not defending the assault, never and consent is a yes ofc. but the problem is when they kissed tom had multiple chances to ran away... idk he could've bit his lip, hit his nose with his head?? but rather he kissed him back and was like "no i actually didnt want it bro" but then he kept talking to him and went to his house... who does that after getting assaulted? then, when tom and that guy masturbated together he also had chances. he was like "oh no i'm weak" but he actually isn't, we saw how he threw punches.
as a girl i saw too many crazy dudes that did not understand the meaning of "no" but i never shoved my tongue down their throat or let them touch me, and i definitely don't go that dudes' house where we'll obviously be alone after the assault.
i feel like that idea made tom curious until things got serious last time
ur disgusting
literally
Yup
I think he did reflect on his actions later and grew to love more but he still never told him the whole truth about his feelings that swayed. I think he just didn't love Jaemin that much before he finally realised he's now going to lose what he has. He did say sth like that in in chap 43. He wasn't so much into it first even though he confessed first but Jaemin was. Huh it was just 2 months since they'd first met...bruh Jaemin don't fall so fast for your heart's sake lol
Still I don't think Jaemin would've left after knowing. (I would've liked him to for a bit atleast). Why? Coz he did know. He came to know something was up after finding the earring, when he asked whether Tom loved him. And definitely after they met again and Tom told him that he couldn't say a firm no and he didn't recognise himself and thought Jaemin would think he's swayed(he definitely was atleast till the handjob blackmail scene). So he's like that I think.
I don't care about anyone I just love Jaemin so much thank you <3 he's the best seme
opinions on tom: he's a cheater, say what you want. y'all saying tom punched him afterwards but tom was licking his throat 2 seconds ago and liked the idea of having an affair. He even thought about him while he was having sex with jaemin. If other guy (forgot his name) was more gentle and slow-paced i'm sure tom would've given consent to sleep with him
i'm telling you if tom had told Jaemin the both sides of the story jaemin would have left him for good