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If you were part of a harem what would you do? I think my first no no would be giving my h...

jasmink May 8, 2021 11:31 am

If you were part of a harem what would you do? I think my first no no would be giving my heart to the so called husband....wonder if i could do it?
Ugh still sounds like too much work, i'd hate to be a part of one.

Responses
    Janaris May 8, 2021 11:37 am

    I would absolutely hate it. I have really low self esteem so sharing my partner with others would destroy me. I would stay away from him so he never really look at me and forget about my existence ( it’s common in harems for that to happen sadly) .
    I would just idle rest of my life eating and living off his money keke

    jooyoungs_hoe May 8, 2021 11:39 am

    First of all, I wouldn't join a harem for any man on earth but since this is a hypothetical question I'll try to answer honestly. Just as you said, I would probably try to dislike the person as much as I could so my feelings don't get heart everytime they're with someone else. If I succeed, I'd try not to stand out and just live a luxurious life [I mean if that person has a alleged 'harem' they have to be rich right?]

    jasmink May 8, 2021 11:44 am
    I would absolutely hate it. I have really low self esteem so sharing my partner with others would destroy me. I would stay away from him so he never really look at me and forget about my existence ( it’s comm... Janaris

    Yeah good strategy , if i had no option but to join one i'd certainly do that

    jooyoungs_hoe May 8, 2021 11:49 am
    First of all, I wouldn't join a harem for any man on earth but since this is a hypothetical question I'll try to answer honestly. Just as you said, I would probably try to dislike the person as much as I could ... jooyoungs_hoe

    **don't get hurt gsggsgs

    jasmink May 8, 2021 11:50 am
    First of all, I wouldn't join a harem for any man on earth but since this is a hypothetical question I'll try to answer honestly. Just as you said, I would probably try to dislike the person as much as I could ... jooyoungs_hoe

    Hmmm what if you get mistreted? When deffence no longer works you'l have to go into offence , me personaly don't think i have the gut or will to do that, and also there is no person in the planet i would go theough this kinda shit for, that would never happen, but i'm saying when it's an inevitable situation

    eli_james May 8, 2021 11:58 am

    first i will live there for a month or so, free rent, foods & seggs (if its good) & then after i save/hide/collect some money/treasure/gems/accessories, i would try flee before other harem members start plotting shit together to frame me & kill me for sins i have not committed... i‘m always tired so i dont want to play mind games...
    if they take me back & try to punish me,
    i‘ll kill myself first before they could try torturing me & killing me...

    jooyoungs_hoe May 8, 2021 11:59 am
    Hmmm what if you get mistreted? When deffence no longer works you'l have to go into offence , me personaly don't think i have the gut or will to do that, and also there is no person in the planet i would go th... jasmink

    TW ;; mention of s*cide








    I would try my best to fight back but obviously me, being the 5'1 person I am, wouldn't be able to. If things went extrem, I'd runaway. If I couldn't even do that, I'd probably just kill myself. I mean, I'd be able to escape the harem and the daily torture.

    ladenza May 8, 2021 12:30 pm

    I have no problem being part of a harem unless everybody didn’t consent to it. as long as it’s kind of a healthy poly relationship and everybody’s chill with it. anddd I don’t get jealous easily so ƪ(˘⌣˘)ʃ

    jasmink May 8, 2021 1:52 pm
    TW ;; mention of s*cide I would try my best to fight back but obviously me, being the 5'1 person I am, wouldn't be able to. If things went extrem, I'd runaway. If I couldn't even do that, I'd probably just kil... jooyoungs_hoe

    Hey!! What the...live! That's obviously not right ....hmm the part i hate the most is begging another person for affection, about that i feel like throwing up, ....but still excluding that part I personally would fight tooth and nail against anyone to survive... probably i won't be able to survive, it's not like i have an impressive skill set, but i'd certainly givee my bloody best, i consider life worth it, and also if you are going to die in the end anyway why not put up a decent fight?

    jasmink May 8, 2021 1:58 pm
    first i will live there for a month or so, free rent, foods & seggs (if its good) & then after i save/hide/collect some money/treasure/gems/accessories, i would try flee before other harem members start... eli_james

    So your options are killing your self and fleeing? Those are some very comfortable options to have at the end of a dark tunnel but i don't think they are to be taken granted....i don't think it'll be easy to do that.
    Even to have the luxuary of death at the face of torture.. if you choose to be powrless i wonder if they would be possible.
    In an actual harem i think you have to have some power, enough to have atleast some type of a freedom of choice.

    jasmink May 8, 2021 2:02 pm
    I have no problem being part of a harem unless everybody didn’t consent to it. as long as it’s kind of a healthy poly relationship and everybody’s chill with it. anddd I don’t get jealous easily so ƪ(�... ladenza

    Like in emperor and the knightess? Right? That situation sounds like heaven, the emperor the three concubines and the knightess were practically one family.
    But the important part is none of them were petty, all of them were sensible kind and responsible and repectable peaople, your karma must be pretty darn good to end up in such a situation.

    jasmink May 8, 2021 2:06 pm

    And also the most important realization you should have in a harem...i think it is that the king's affection is not a solid footing, if you you build your whole life on top of such a fickle thing your castles are destined to be crumbled and tragically swayed now and then.

    jasmink May 8, 2021 2:12 pm
    I would absolutely hate it. I have really low self esteem so sharing my partner with others would destroy me. I would stay away from him so he never really look at me and forget about my existence ( it’s comm... Janaris

    But don't hate him, not being emotinally involved is the best, ehat i'm saying is don't give himemotinally a big value....and you can build up your self esteem and learn to love your self bit by bit...i think that part is very important in your life , the fact if you could just be happy being by yourself

    jooyoungs_hoe May 8, 2021 2:39 pm
    Hey!! What the...live! That's obviously not right ....hmm the part i hate the most is begging another person for affection, about that i feel like throwing up, ....but still excluding that part I personally wou... jasmink

    nah, that'd be way too tiring tbh plus there's no way that the other people in the harem would let me die a peaceful death if I lost the fight so I'm my opinion dieing by my own hands would be the better option.

    jooyoungs_hoe May 8, 2021 2:40 pm
    nah, that'd be way too tiring tbh plus there's no way that the other people in the harem would let me die a peaceful death if I lost the fight so I'm my opinion dieing by my own hands would be the better option... jooyoungs_hoe

    **in my opinion
    pls tf is wrong w my spelling theses days

    eli_james May 8, 2021 2:41 pm
    So your options are killing your self and fleeing? Those are some very comfortable options to have at the end of a dark tunnel but i don't think they are to be taken granted....i don't think it'll be easy to do... jasmink

    so which era & kind of harem are we talking about? i thought we are talking about ancient times kind of harem? where everyone is forced to be there & that is the only way i‘ll be in a harem. what freedom of choice??
    well i just answered your question about what would I do...
    so if i either flee or kill myself is all my choice.
    i dont need you to tell me what i want to do is right or wrong in this situation because in the end its all on me..
    & i have enough ways to kill myself so yeah its fine & you’re right, i love to live comfortably

    jasmink May 8, 2021 3:18 pm
    so which era & kind of harem are we talking about? i thought we are talking about ancient times kind of harem? where everyone is forced to be there & that is the only way i‘ll be in a harem. what free... eli_james

    What the ? Did i offend you? If so it was not my ontention...and dude ...fine let's agree to disagree lwhen things get tough, you'll choose to die i'll choose to live.
    I was not bossing you around what i gave you was also my opinion because killing oneself is obviously used too often an option

    jasmink May 8, 2021 3:19 pm
    nah, that'd be way too tiring tbh plus there's no way that the other people in the harem would let me die a peaceful death if I lost the fight so I'm my opinion dieing by my own hands would be the better option... jooyoungs_hoe

    Ok your choice, rest in peace