Honestly, not a take I can agree with, but you do you. It's not easy to just up and get over your problems, Inwoo's issues are deep-seated, he can't just pause his life and connections forever to resolve it and move on like magic; people gotta keep being people. Secondly, it was Jiho who pursued him when neither of them were ready for a relationship. I'm not saying Inwoo is innocent but Jiho is definitely MORE in the wrong by a large margin. It's not a matter of Jiho needing to be understanding or not, but he's just fucking dumb, thoughtless and inconsiderate in how he goes about everything; and at this point should break up for Inwoo's sake.
And on another matter, Jiho just straight up isn't an understanding person in the first place which is why this matter snowballed like this; so it's weird to be bringing up fairness imo?
Both have issues. My point is that if you want to have a relationship, you have to be prepared for your partner's condition or try to be better for your partner. The thing I don't like about Inwoo is that he has no desire to 'heal', but also doesn't want to let go of this relationship until Jiho crosses the line.
They need professional help especially Inwoo, but most importantly both need to show the desire to 'heal'. It's not pausing his life, but he can life on while seeking for help. Yes, it's not easy, but life is never easy, you need to fight for everything. Whoever his partner is, Inwoo's relationship won't work if he stays like that.
True, Jiho was the first to pursue Inwoo but now both are unwilling to let go of each other. The thing I don't like about Jiho is that he was aware of Inwoo's condition from the start, but he's living their relationship under the shadow of Inwoo's story and Inwoo's previous relationship. In essence, both of them has problem.
For me, both are wrong. I'm someone who believes when you have 'unfinished business' you can't expect your partner to continue to understand. It's your problem, only you can solve it, but if there's no awareness from yourself how are you going to heal. Inwoo does need a little slap. I understand it's hard, but if you don't move forward you're not only hurting yourself but also those around you. It's not fair that Jiho should always understand, when she sees her loved ones getting 'sick'. Jiho's only fault was the way she confronted Inwoo's problems, but it was only natural when she started to get worried, anxious and tired.