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Why are people more interested in BL mangas than GL mangas? As someone who's friends with ...

Yourwindowisbroken November 30, 2025 3:07 pm

Why are people more interested in BL mangas than GL mangas? As someone who's friends with BL watchers and readers, im taken back when some scrunch their noses or just plain on reject me when I recommend them any yuri stuff. Whats so good about BL mangas that dominates GL mangas for them in wonder? And why the discrimination?

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    Misanthropical November 30, 2025 3:22 pm

    Most BL readers are straight women, so I think because it features two hot dudes they're more interested in those stories, even if they're generic/straight-up ass/filled with rape, as opposed to reading stories about two women in love. A lot of fujoshis pull the "all GLs are written by/for men," even if realistically 80-90% of GL is actually written BY women FOR women, so don't fall for that propaganda + almost 100% of BLs are written by women, so idk why when a GL is written by a man it's immediately bad??

    Though there are also some viable criticisms against GL mangas, such as a lot of GLs feature high-schoolers, stories are usually way too simplistic, once the couple gets together the story is basically over, some GLs keep the relationship way too ambiguous/subtext etc., but most people don't really bring up those things when they shit on GL, just the same boring "omg women are being fetishised/showing actual sexual desire, GROSS!! THIS WAS DEF WRITTEN BY A MAN, DISGUSTING!!" EVEN THOUGH the most fucked up/toxic GLs still pale in comparison to most weird ass BLs.

    Bike November 30, 2025 3:44 pm

    Speculating, probably generalizations (accuracy varies)
    . For men, by men = fetishistic / male-gazey
    . Sweet, school-life = boring
    . Some GL fans have a superiority complex over BL fans e.g. 'GL is deeper/more toxic/more interesting than most BL' = discourse dissuades BL fans in particular to disengage

    i_i November 30, 2025 5:00 pm

    Idk about others but I avoid straight romance cus am aro/ace and reading about girl in love/relationship feels like im supposed to relate to her and I don’t like that cus many Cant write women well at all!!

    I did read some GL and some were interesting enough I enjoyed them but many were also just… same gender roles as straight couple…

    When that happens in BL I can ignore it cus it’s a guy even if he’s feminine and bottom or whatever, but whenever a girl is potrayed like that I’m reminded some people truly can’t imagine a relationship where the “female” isn’t submissive and dumb and the top isn’t “cool and strong”

    Basically: many GLs I tried reading tasted like Ariana Grande & Cynthia Eriva shipping on twt, bland and filled with unnecessary gender stereotypes

    Misanthropical November 30, 2025 5:03 pm
    Idk about others but I avoid straight romance cus am aro/ace and reading about girl in love/relationship feels like im supposed to relate to her and I don’t like that cus many Cant write women well at all!! I... i_i

    NOT THE ARIANA GRANDE AND CYNTHIA ERIVO COMPARISON, HELPPP

    Also it's funny you mention GLs tasting like that, because imo BLs are more like that lmao.

    elorlana November 30, 2025 5:39 pm

    for myself, even as a bi woman, i don't read much. but i enjoy them when i get to them (though id watch a sapphic film over reading. jus like the format better for gl. seen many films, but only read a few gl) and it also lowk makes by bf uncomfortable soo yeah ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    elorlana November 30, 2025 5:46 pm
    Most BL readers are straight women, so I think because it features two hot dudes they're more interested in those stories, even if they're generic/straight-up ass/filled with rape, as opposed to reading stories... Misanthropical

    def majorly cause of most BL audience is straight women! if i rec a gl to my straight bl loving friend, she'd be really confused, cause obv, she's not attracted to women lmao. not that im not a firm believer in enjoying romance stories of all types, but you cant force interest when most read for the sex and dicks, ig

    Misanthropical November 30, 2025 5:50 pm
    def majorly cause of most BL audience is straight women! if i rec a gl to my straight bl loving friend, she'd be really confused, cause obv, she's not attracted to women lmao. not that im not a firm believer in... elorlana

    True, at the end of the day it's absolutely fine if someone doesn't want to read GLs or BLs or even straight romances, but imo I've always seen BL readers talking shit about (MOST of the time) GLs, even though they literally just read BLs for the smut and then have the nerve to shittalk about every other romance genre lol.

    elorlana November 30, 2025 6:02 pm
    True, at the end of the day it's absolutely fine if someone doesn't want to read GLs or BLs or even straight romances, but imo I've always seen BL readers talking shit about (MOST of the time) GLs, even though ... Misanthropical

    I could see that. BL readers are weird sometimes. tbh i don't run in many bl spaces to know (i only live here)! sad to hear, considering fujoshis dont exactly have the best reputation with "normies" we all support healthy queer media even if you dont read it, if you don't def feels like ur just fetishizing gay men!!